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I really hate to talk about private issues. Im not going to go too deep into the whole story.Suffice to say we have family discord in a big way. We have three people on one side and three on the other. No matter how I try to make peace I cannot. And its not a situation where I can just throw up my hands and walk away from them. It hurts me deeply because I have lost several family members to cancer. I feel like we are wasting precious time arguing over foolish things. Ive tried everything,I even went to counseling on my own. And there seem to be no solutions. And so we talk and talk and talk about the same old arguments and nothing ever gets solved. I am just at wits end to know how to have peace.
We have had several upsets and I keep coming back to my husband upset and crying. He then gets upset because,man like,he wants to fix it for me. Its not fair to him. The three on the other side have refused to accept my husband in the family.They treat him like a stranger. He has done so much for my family and they still wont accept him. Which makes me angry and only adds to the chaos. I want to be making memories and enjoying time with family but they wont work toward peace. Their opinion of me is pretty low and I cant understand that considering Im the one working so hard for peace. I really dont know what to do. Ive prayed,Ive gone for counseling,Ive done all I know to do. Im a person that wants everyone to get along and this strife is just too much. I just want peace. Short of putting everyone in a choke hold I dont know where to go from here. Anyone face this before?
We have had several upsets and I keep coming back to my husband upset and crying. He then gets upset because,man like,he wants to fix it for me. Its not fair to him. The three on the other side have refused to accept my husband in the family.They treat him like a stranger. He has done so much for my family and they still wont accept him. Which makes me angry and only adds to the chaos. I want to be making memories and enjoying time with family but they wont work toward peace. Their opinion of me is pretty low and I cant understand that considering Im the one working so hard for peace. I really dont know what to do. Ive prayed,Ive gone for counseling,Ive done all I know to do. Im a person that wants everyone to get along and this strife is just too much. I just want peace. Short of putting everyone in a choke hold I dont know where to go from here. Anyone face this before?