DC's post that you quoted was not misconstruing God's nature...I don't see that in his post...
DC was attempting to say God does not condemn the wicked to death with delight,
which is true, but he will cause their final defeat with just judgement with a passion.
The Lord examines the righteous, but
the wicked, those who love violence,
he hates with a passion.
Psalm 11:5
Read this from revelations
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I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True.
With justice he judges and wages war. 12 His eyes are like blazing fire, and on his head are many crowns. He has a name written on him that no one knows but he himself. 13 He is dressed in a robe dipped in blood, and
his name is the Word of God. 14 The armies of heaven were following him, riding on white horses and dressed in fine linen, white and clean. 15 Coming out of his mouth is a sharp sword with which to strike down the nations. “He will rule them with an iron scepter."
He treads the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God Almighty. 16 On his robe and on his thigh he has this name written:
king of kings and lord of lords.
17 And I saw an angel standing in the sun, who cried in a loud voice to all the birds flying in midair, “Come, gather together for the great supper of God, 18 so that you may
eat the flesh of kings, generals, and the mighty, of horses and their riders, and the flesh of all people, free and slave, great and small.”
rev 19:11-18
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This is truly gruesome, the judgement of God on mankind, the day of wrath.
For good reason we should fear the judgement of the Living God.