A mentally/spiritually healthy person holds themselves to a higher standard than they hold others.
I have given up holding standards against people. I have met so really strange people, who have
totally messed up lives, so who am I to make sense of it. I try and make sense of my interactions
and help and encourage others, which not getting too directive, unless it is obviously dangerous or
wrong. Now I assume most here are much more gifted than I am, and have knowledge of things
I have only just guessed at.
I do though respond to things that seem to contradict the Lord and His teaching.
Is it possible to go to hell because of this kind of faith in Christ?
Are we not kept by His word and the Holy Spirit?
And I am still wondering what terrible evils I have done. It does bother me that
some brothers feel such animosity and antagonism, but it is just the word of the Lord
that stands between us. How can this be?
For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.
Heb 4:12
Now if you believe God does not do this, just the enemy, and then you meet
someone using the word of God, very perplexing. Now for me I would rejoice,
with great joy, because if God speaks to me, what a privilege.
Do people understand the idea of a rebuke from the Lord?
My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline,
and do not lose heart when he rebukes you,
6 because the Lord disciplines the one he loves,
and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.
Heb 12:4-6
Now if you want to rebuke me, amen.
The word of the Lord is a blessing to those who listen to Him.