Love sick

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Does anyone know what the cure to being love sick is?

I've been nutz about this lovely woman for years, but she's too busy to recognize me.
 
Why don't you talk to her? Text her and ask her out for a date?
 
Galatea said:
Why don't you talk to her? Text her and ask her out for a date?
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I kinda did that, but she went mental.

(I basically said to her and the whole world I was in love with her)

Whoops.
 
bestbefore1973 said:
I kinda did that, but she went mental.

(I basically said to her and the whole world I was in love with her)

Whoops.
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For future reference, unless you know that she likes being put on the spot like that, never make an embarassing public pronouncement of your feelings like that. I know for me, if I'm put in that situation my response is more about stopping being the center of attention and being angry that someone would put me in that position than it is about whether I like the poor guy or not. My feelings and personal life are not something I discuss in public, ever.

So my advice is to write to her, apologize for the way you put her on the spot like that, and ask for her to give you a chance at just 1 date to see if the two of you can hit it off. And if she says no, mourn the loss of all those hopes and dreams, trust that God (and quite possibly this gal too if she's as wonderful as you think she is) is watching out for you and sparing you even worse heartache, and then let it go and move on with your life. There's really nothing else you can do. Going all stalker on a girl never won her heart; it'll just drive her further away.
 
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cinder said:
For future reference, unless you know that she likes being put on the spot like that, never make an embarassing public pronouncement of your feelings like that.
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Check....


How did you feel about my spray painting your name on the I-24 overpass?
 
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How did you feel about my spray painting your name on the I-24 overpass?
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In John Deere green
On a hot summer night
He wrote "Billy Bob loves Charlene"
In letters three foot high
And the whole town said
The fool should have used red
But it looked good to Charlene
In John Deere gree
 
17Bees said:
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How did you feel about my spray painting your name on the I-24 overpass?
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You're just lucky I don't live anywhere near I-24, but now of course I despise you for it, and will never go anywhere near that road.
 
There are 3.75 billion women on this planet. and your getting hung up on one! I keep telling myself that very same question. Maybe it is because you do not date or have any other women in your life. Your single so be single. date. ask women on dates.. i have this picture of a page filled with the word no written all over it, with the word yes at the bottom. you have to get through the no's to get to the yes. problem with me is having the courage to endure the no's..... because that is exactly what you have to do..
 
dude, if a girl is too busy for you, you might wanna find someone else, spend your time on someone who has time for you.
 
Ugly said:
Well that killed any chances.
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Why? I'd be ecstatic if a man did that for me. It would be romantic and thrilling. Maybe she was momentarily embarrassed. This is why I asked him if she had totally frozen him out. If she hasn't, then she is not SO terribly upset as she initially was. If she still talks to him, he might have hope.
 
Lynx said:
In John Deere green
On a hot summer night
He wrote "Billy Bob loves Charlene"
In letters three foot high
And the whole town said
The fool should have used red
But it looked good to Charlene
In John Deere gree
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I actually know what John Deere green is. I had to use their logo on some promotional stuff we made for them in a former job of mine..... :rolleyes:
 
cinder said:
You're just lucky I don't live anywhere near I-24, but now of course I despise you for it, and will never go anywhere near that road.
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No worries then. It's clear no one reads the signs there anyway!
 
cinder said:
For future reference, unless you know that she likes being put on the spot like that, never make an embarassing public pronouncement of your feelings like that. I know for me, if I'm put in that situation my response is more about stopping being the center of attention and being angry that someone would put me in that position than it is about whether I like the poor guy or not. My feelings and personal life are not something I discuss in public, ever.

So my advice is to write to her, apologize for the way you put her on the spot like that, and ask for her to give you a chance at just 1 date to see if the two of you can hit it off. And if she says no, mourn the loss of all those hopes and dreams, trust that God (and quite possibly this gal too if she's as wonderful as you think she is) is watching out for you and sparing you even worse heartache, and then let it go and move on with your life. There's really nothing else you can do. Going all stalker on a girl never won her heart; it'll just drive her further away.
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https://youtu.be/e6_d9DseKUQ
 
vernonray said:
There are 3.75 billion women on this planet. and your getting hung up on one! I keep telling myself that very same question. Maybe it is because you do not date or have any other women in your life. Your single so be single. date. ask women on dates.. i have this picture of a page filled with the word no written all over it, with the word yes at the bottom. you have to get through the no's to get to the yes. problem with me is having the courage to endure the no's..... because that is exactly what you have to do..
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Well, she's my soul mate.

(Her body hasn't caught up to her spirit yet)
 
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