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You know, it always perplexes me as to how my mother, who is not a believer, can see my own hypocrisies better than I can sometimes. I can literally be talking about how something is hypocritical and then find myself doing the very thing 5 minutes later! It's really weird isn't it? It leaves me dumbfounded sometimes. Always helps with humility though. No matter how much you grow in humility, He never stops teaching you that you still have a lack of it! I honestly think that none of the other virtues are gained without humility and that with humility, you have the other virtues. It's like...it's impossible to learn more humility and not gain an increase in all others. Humility is like the lynchpin virtue...
We are imperfect in wisdom,in self control, in listening,in understanding God's will for our lives, in sight.
We don't know all the answers and must trust in God and others to fulfill what God asks of us. Many people try and do it alone but God made us to be part of the Body and not solo members.
We learn and grow together.