public high school

[BeyondET]

No child asks to be bullied. No child should ever expect to be bullied. No child should ever "get used to" being bullied. Bullying and dealing with bullies is not a right of passage of childhood. It should never, ever happen in the first place.

Regardless of what a child is like, even if they are, as you say "a loner and a loser", that child should not be bullied by his or her peers.

Bullies are freaks and insecure and try to show how tuff they are by picking on someone they can. The bully will never pick on someone he cant win.

 

[Willie-T]

There's is strength in weakness which you know nothing about

Then why are you guys complaining about being bullied because of weakness? Rejoice in it.

 

[BeyondET]

Then why are you guys complaining about being bullied because of weakness? Rejoice in it.

Do what you need too...

 

[Willie-T]

Crying like this does nothing but keep kids weak. North Korea "should not" be planning on firing missiles at us. So what? We all know the only thing that will keep them from doing that is the realization of the strength standing against them.

 

[Yahweh_is_gracious]

7th to 12th grade should have taught you that the world is REAL. "Should not's" don't go very far out where reality exists. You can wish in one hand, and squat and do something else in the other hand.... and I think you know which one will get filled-up first.

We are talking about two different things, from different points of view, and I can already tell this isn't going to get us anywhere. You think you're right, and I think I'm right. I'll never agree with your position, nor you mine. I don't see the world the same way you do, and for that I am glad.

 

[BeyondET]

We are talking about two different things, from different points of view, and I can already tell this isn't going to get us anywhere. You think you're right, and I think I'm right. I'll never agree with your position, nor you mine. I don't see the world the same way you do, and for that I am glad.

It's called deversion, it's what a psychologist do.

 

[Willie-T]

Bullies are freaks and insecure and try to show how tuff they are by picking on someone they can. The bully will never pick on someone he cant win.

So?

They still exist.... at all ages, and in every part of life. They always have and always will.

We either learn how to do something about it, or we accept being bullied.

 

[BeyondET]

So?

They still exist.... at all ages, and in every part of life. They always have and always will.

We either learn how to do something about it, or we accept being bullied.

No doubt about the age thing,

So I what learn the proper way tell me?

 

[Willie-T]

We are talking about two different things, from different points of view, and I can already tell this isn't going to get us anywhere. You think you're right, and I think I'm right. I'll never agree with your position, nor you mine. I don't see the world the same way you do, and for that I am glad.

Didn't you sit right here and admit that what your father told you to do didn't work? Didn't you keep on getting your butt kicked for years?

I joined with some friends in third grade, and none of us was ever bullied again. By Middle School I had learned to fight, and have never worried about it since. When I learned that I also needed to be able to outsmart people in the work force, I learned that too.

We are crippling this young generation by what we are not teaching them.

 

[BeyondET]

Didn't you sit right here and admit that what your father told you to do didn't work? Didn't you keep on getting your butt kicked for years?

I joined with some friends in third grade, and none of us was ever bullied again. By Middle School I had learned to fight, and have never worried about it since. When I learned that I also needed to be able to outsmart people in the work force, I learned that too.

We are crippling this young generation by what we are not teaching them.

Great advice for the young, get others to agree, fight with your fist and learn to outsmart people.

 

[Willie-T]

No doubt about the age thing,

So I what learn the proper way tell me?

You think me telling you that a kid has to stand up for themselves is "bullying" you??? (I guess that's what you attempted to type in that sentence.) That's pitiful.

 

[maxwel]

No child asks to be bullied. No child should ever expect to be bullied. No child should ever "get used to" being bullied. Bullying and dealing with bullies is not a right of passage of childhood. It should never, ever happen in the first place.

Regardless of what a child is like, even if they are, as you say "a loner and a loser", that child should not be bullied by his or her peers.

No child should ever be treated badly by bullies, or by anyone else.
However... they are.
In real life, bad things happen, and we can, and should, expect them.


Do you lock the doors on your house?
Why?


The same rules that apply to your house also apply to the schoolyard...
bad people exist, and sometimes they show up and do bad things.
Therefore, it's best if we can be prepared.


We live in a fallen world, where bad things happen.
It is not YOUR fault that you weren't prepared to deal with these things as a kid.
It's nor your fault.
But as you saw for yourself, prepared or not, you will still encounter the bad.
Therefore, if we can be better prepared, then we are better able to deal with it.


For adults, or for the children of the world, bad people will keep doing bad things.
The more we just honestly recognize this, and prepare for it, in SOME WAY, the better off we'll be.


We live in a fallen world.
Bullies have been around forever, and they aren't going anywhere.
Why?
Because bad actions come from a bad heart... and humans are born with a heart problem.


God Bless,
Max

 

[BeyondET]

You think me telling you that a kid has to stand up for themselves is "bullying" you??? (I guess that's what you attempted to type in that sentence.) That's pitiful.

Your listening to your old self again, just add any old thing to it... deversion because you can't answer the question.

 

[kaylagrl]

We learned it pretty early in our schooling, and bullies soon learned something, too. And, that was not to mess with four or more kids who stood together. And then most of us soon watched out for others, and within weeks, bullying ended in our schools. No teachers were ever involved.

I was a very shy kid in grade school. I didnt get beat up but I got picked on mainly because I wasn't brought up around rough kids.My mother said when I was headed to high school she was afraid she was going to have to go with me to protect me. Well something kicked in with puberty and I was the one that defended all the kids that were getting bullied. If I was out sick they'd get beat up. I was like a house mother. I never had to hit anyone,I was a tough talker and I guess people thought I might just be crazy enough to carry out what I said.
Now my way of dealing with things didn't work for my younger sister and she had to be put into private school. Not everyone has the ability to take on bullies,at least she didn't seem too. I remember one of the girls took a drink from the fountain and spit it all over my friend. I told her that was a nasty thing to do and she told me to shut up or she'd do it to me. I walked up in her face and said "do it and see what happens!" She and I later became the best of friends. I was quiet,I kept to myself,I didnt pick fights,maybe because I was quiet people didnt expect me to stand up. Now my sister couldn't stand up to bullies at all. We attended different schools so I couldn't help her so my parents put her in Christian school.

 

[BeyondET]

You think me telling you that a kid has to stand up for themselves is "bullying" you??? (I guess that's what you attempted to type in that sentence.) That's pitiful.

The little sychie games don't work with me

 

[Willie-T]

Great advice for the young, get others to agree, fight with your fist and learn to outsmart people.

You should be grateful men who fought, kept you free to whimper that you should be treated nice by everyone.

 

[BeyondET]

You should be grateful men who fought, kept you free to whimper that you should be treated nice by everyone.

Gee your out there hoss.. we don't see eye to eye nor do I think we ever did...

 

[Willie-T]

I was a very shy kid in grade school. I didnt get beat up but I got picked on mainly because I wasn't brought up around rough kids.My mother said when I was headed to high school she was afraid she was going to have to go with me to protect me. Well something kicked in with puberty and I was the one that defended all the kids that were getting bullied. If I was out sick they'd get beat up. I was like a house mother. I never had to hit anyone,I was a tough talker and I guess people thought I might just be crazy enough to carry out what I said.
Now my way of dealing with things didn't work for my younger sister and she had to be put into private school. Not everyone has the ability to take on bullies,at least she didn't seem too. I remember one of the girls took a drink from the fountain and spit it all over my friend. I told her that was a nasty thing to do and she told me to shut up or she'd do it to me. I walked up in her face and said "do it and see what happens!" She and I later became the best of friends. I was quiet,I kept to myself,I didnt pick fights,maybe because I was quiet people didnt expect me to stand up. Now my sister couldn't stand up to bullies at all. We attended different schools so I couldn't help her so my parents put her in Christian school.

And you know you're a stronger and better woman today for what you found inside you way back then.

 

[BeyondET]

You should be grateful men who fought, kept you free to whimper that you should be treated nice by everyone.

You grabbed a hold of the wrong nerve not once but twice.

 

[BeyondET]

You know nothing me and where I've been.