God hating you before you're born?

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Name one person who wasn't elected, but was saved.
So I guess in your bible it says "For God so loved the elect" and if the "elect calls upon the name of the lord they shall be saved". lol
 
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i understand, and no problem. :)

that was my first post in a while, actually. we have another grandchild on the way (huzzah!) and i've been (pre)occupied. lol
I'm seeing two different images.
1. Knit one, perl one. Must get blanket done in time.
2. Phone call every 5 minutes to ask if it's time. lol
 
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Originally Posted by Willie-T
If I put a million $ in a bank account for you, and you refuse to ever acknowledge that money is waiting for you to spend..... does that mean I didn't put it there for you? No, it means you just thumbed your nose at the financial loss I incurred for your benefit. I still lost the money. And it was done for you, not for me.

A dead man can't acknowledge the money is even there. Your analogy is invalid.

You are right, he does not know until the Holy Spirit convinces him and says "Hey check your back account"
 
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No one said salvation wasn't to be proclaimed to everyone, because we don't know who the elect are, we proclaim salvation to all, but we know that not all will respond and those who die in their sin will be rightfuly judged by God and sentenced to hell, was salvation proclaimed to them? Absolutely, but they were never going to believe it.
So you are elected but have no clue who the elect are. Is that right?

The Bible clearly says you should know who the others are.
 
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If you ever really read Romans the way you instruct us here, you personally, could never come up with what you are saying is truth and what others say is in error.
Yeah. Like okay. That worked. :confused:
 
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How many years did you leave that $ just lying in the bank before you thanked Jesus for it, and accepted it and Him? I have no idea why He died for any of us. I have met few I thought were worth it.... but I do believe the $ is in the account for our entire lives, just waiting for us to accept it.

Maybe God does like in the parable of the Talents, and rolls it over as even more reward for others if we never accept it.

I just have to do my best with what I feel I understand. I find myself falling far short of so many other people who read some verses, and can then emphatically inform others on how the whole universe works.
Oh, don't sell yourself short. You're very good at telling everybody all you emphatically know and believe to straighten us out just fine.

BTW. Jesus paid the debt to the Father to get whom the Father chose.
 
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Well lots wife was going to be saved until she made the choice to disobey and looked back.
How dare she steal God's choice for her like that?
 

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So you are elected but have no clue who the elect are. Is that right?

The Bible clearly says you should know who the others are.
How am I supposed to know when preaching who the elect are?
 
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Hello Ellie, and good morning :) Oh my goodness, I did not even realize
it was a thread Maria started :eek: Hello Maria :) I hope you are well today :)
Hello!! :) I am doing fine, learning a lot here, I already have all Romans at hand to read as homework. I have to say I am more than a little fascinated by the size of the discussion though, I understand just a few things, but I have to say it amazes me how the conversation unfolded so fierily! :D
 
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How am I supposed to know when preaching who the elect are?
Since according to you only the elect are saved why preach the gospel to others aren't you wasting your time doing that
 
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We aren't angels for one. Nothing has been revealed about their will, just ours. And God has concluded that ours is in bondage to sin. It's all over the bible.
Still waiting in your answer and yes the Bible has revealed their will to us (1 Peter 1:12). If what you say and preach is true then the angels that fell with Satan did not have a choice, but they like us, have a choice, otherwise there would not be some with God today.

So once again, how does your theology rectify the free choice/will exercised by 1/3 of the angels that fell with Satan?
 
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Why would you put $1 million in someone's bank account if they aren't using it?

Why would Jesus redeem the Pharaoh? He certainly didn't save him. Why did Jesus redeem Lot's wife. He certainly didn't save her. Jezebel? Ahab? Herod? Why redeem that which you aren't redeeming?

And, if you're into giving away money, want my address to send the check? lol
How can Jesus redeem those in the Old Covenant?
 

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Since according to you only the elect are saved why preach the gospel to others aren't you wasting your time doing that
Because Jesus commanded us to do so, that's why we preach, that's also the means through which God reaches His elect, through the preaching of the gospel.
 
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Because Jesus commanded us to do so, that's why we preach, that's also the means through which God reaches His elect, through the preaching of the gospel.
Hmm thats interesting in Mark 16:15 it clearly says " He said to them, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation." Yet in whatever bible you read you believe he wants the focus to be on his elect
 
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Oh, don't sell yourself short. You're very good at telling everybody all you emphatically know and believe to straighten us out just fine.

BTW. Jesus paid the debt to the Father to get whom the Father chose.
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Quote " You misunderstand irresistible grace?"

No,I dont misunderstand and yes we can go ho hum or the Bible would not say things like "believe on the Lord", command us to repent and turn from sin and to choose. All of that is unnecessary if people are elected or rejected. So either Gods a liar or you need to take a second look at what you believe.


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Actually, I don't try to win souls."

Of course you dont,with what you believe theres no purpose to it!

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It's not a contest."

No,its a command,a commission.

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You honestly don't know what long-suffering is?"

No,it was a rhetorical question. Why would God need long suffering with man when he already put the gun to their head and said "you,you and you,you're going to hell no matter how much you beg for mercy" He'd close His ears and hum a tune,He wouldn't talk about long suffering and striving with man. And He would send His only Son to be murdered for people already selected for heaven.

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He did pay for all our sins -- the sins of the elect, not every single sin ever."

No,the Bible does not teach that.And you have to do some fancy twisting to say that. The Bible clearly says "for all" and "the whole world"


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I've gone through the scapegoat clause with you multiple times too, and yet, again, you act like I have never. No one has ever.

AND you keep telling this as if you completely never heard the other side of this, even though anyone who believes the other side is wrong/a liar/doesn't know the Bible as well as you do/etc.

Lynn Im not trying to be smart here.You and I have not argued over Calvinistic teachings.You will not find me in the grace threads.And odd comment but you do not find me arguing with you nor anyone. So I dont know what you are talking about nor who but you have me confused. You and I have not argued this subject.

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If you don't want me to call you on that, don't do it! You are calling me a liar. You are calling Forth a liar. You are calling Trof a liar. You are calling Marano a liar. You are calling Angela a liar. You are calling every single Calvinists on this site a liar!"

Im stating what the Bible says,I have pointed out verses,that is all.I have not called any of you a liar. I think you have misunderstood Scripture and are following a wrong theology.The Bible does not support it. But that does not mean you are a liar nor have I called you one.


Quote "Stop it! You have been told. If you don't want to believe it, I don't care. I do, very much care, that you portray Calvinists as all liars! And why? Because you keep asking the same questions without ever seeing/acknowledging/reading/whatever, WE HAVE TOLD YOU THE TRUTH! OFTEN!"

Lynn your over reaction in these posts surprise me.Ive always known you to be direct,but you outright angry. I have never,ever called you a liar. I dont argue with Calvinists and I stay out of those threads and this is the very reason why. You are over reacting Lynn,seriously over reacting. I believe in tongues and people in this very thread think Im possessed by the devil for believing it. You dont see me screaming at people to stop it and dont call me a liar etc. I know what I believe and no one is going to change what I believe.You screaming at me and falsely saying Ive called Calvinists lairs is still not going to change my mind.I have friends in my real life that are Calvinists,we dont bring up what we dont agree on. How could we be friends if I think they are liars? I believe they are wrong. But when people scream at me what they believe it makes me wonder who they are trying to convince,me or themselves?
I'm over reacting? Okay. I'll accept that.

So this is what you don't believe:

Absolutely! To believe that God elects certain people to be saved means He also elected some to hell. So God created throw away,disposable people,He created a certain number of people He doesn'tcare about. Not only that but the drug addict,the prostitute,the alcoholic that cries out to Him for help,God just tunes them out,He doesn't care,their cries go unheard,they are disposable. How can anyone know if they will be saved? How can I know if Im one of the elected or one of the doomed?! No,I dont believe that God works that way. Why send missionaries overseas? The right people will come,why preach? No. I dont believe this at all and the Bible doesn't teach it.It makes God to be a liar. "For God so loved" is a lie. No one can convince me of this God,with this nature. All who call,whosoever will,that is the God I serve.

Can you tell me who does believe that, or are we back to six-legged polka-dotted whales on the far side of the moon again, and just picking some words that aren't relative to anyone's theory on this thread?

Honestly? There really is a far side of the moon, just as there is God's elect, so the rest is the part I'm asking about.