Calvinists,Im Asking...

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Ariel82

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And Ariel, I have no beef with you. My only issue is that you play both sides. I think you are closer to the truth than most here though, and I hope you keep trying to learn. I have nothing else to say on this thread though.
Yeah didn't know there was a "side" besides God's.

I don't play games. I state what I believe and ask questions about what others believe.

I try and find common ground and from there discuss the differences in beliefs.

I was always taught that was how you have a civlized conversation.
 

ForthAngel

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Yeah didn't know there was a "side" besides God's.

I don't play games. I state what I believe and ask questions about what others believe.

I try and find common ground and from there discuss the differences in beliefs.

I was always taught that was how you have a civlized conversation.
There is a dividing line between that which is truth and that which is not. You stand in defense of both in many cases. Civilized conversations only work when each side is truthfully represented by the opposing side. This isn't happening on this thread.
 
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Yeah didn't know there was a "side" besides God's.

I don't play games. I state what I believe and ask questions about what others believe.

I try and find common ground and from there discuss the differences in beliefs.

I was always taught that was how you have a civlized conversation.
Um, no, you in fact do play games. You accuse others, bear false witness against them and belittle, all while pretending to be a high standing individual for truth.

Instead of asking what others believe as you falsely claim, you tell them what they believe and then accuse them based on your false witness. That is perfectly descriptive of you. After you do this then you politick others for support.

You're a fake. You don't try to find common ground, instead you try to find a place to attack those who preach against false doctrine and false teachers in order to please others.
 
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Desertsrose

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And that's where it gets even more confusion. Arminians come in two basic forms -- Pelagans and semipelagans. Same kind of thing as 5-point Calvinist vs. 4-Point Calvinist. It really isn't any more defining other than what we've been saying, "I don't agree 100% with..."

Hi Lynn,

Maybe we need an Arminian thread. :)

You think you know what Arminians believe probably because of what you've read or what you've been told. Or it could be deductive reasoning sort of like those who assume Calvinists believe God is sending those not elected to hell.

I would not agree that all Arminians believe that you work at all to receive salvation. Rather it's a proof of genuine faith when faith does its work. Do you see the difference? Many
believe we're saved by grace through faith, just as the Calvinists do.

In case you're interested, yes I know of hyper calvinists. One told me they didn't know if their child would be saved because they might not be one of the elect.

Every thing is from God, even when the person sins, it's God. This is really how they believe. If someone has diabetes or whatever, it isn't God allowed it, it's God did it. This is the church I was a part of for a few years.
 
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kaylagrl

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Let me use a common Calvinist card and say "all doesn't always mean all". See what I did there? :cool:

I know you are being genuine. Most others are not.



All I can say is put the others on ignore.Ive asked for everyone to respect the OP but I guess that means nothing here at CC
 
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kaylagrl

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And Ariel, I have no beef with you. My only issue is that you play both sides. I think you are closer to the truth than most here though, and I hope you keep trying to learn. I have nothing else to say on this thread though.
Thats a pity,you are one that I wanted to hear from.I hope you change your mind. But this is pretty much CC.
 
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kaylagrl

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Um, no, you in fact do play games. You accuse others, bear false witness against them and belittle, all while pretending to be a high standing individual for truth.

Instead of asking what others believe as you falsely claim, you tell them what they believe and then accuse them based on your false witness. That is perfectly descriptive of you. After you do this then you politick others for support.

You're a fake. You don't try to find common ground, instead you try to find a place to attack those who preach against false doctrine and false teachers in order to please others.

Look around,anyone else you want to call names? Miss anyone? Please go to another thread. Go argue somewhere else! For pitys sake its like dealing with toddlers around here.Ive asked how many times now for everyone to respect the OP! Why is that so hard? Stop it! Go argue on the 30 other threads on this subject and let us discuss here.
 

ForthAngel

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How does that work when both "sides" claim to be standing for their truth?

There are 3 sides to the story: "ours" "theirs" and the Truth.

What I see are imperfect people striving to understand what God has said and live what He teaches.

For me Jesus is more than who has the right doctrines.

The Pharisees had perfect doctrine, but Jesus still called them whitewashed tombs because they did not live what they preached.

I know we all day things in anger and frustration.

It's easy to get offended, but why is it so hard to forgive?

I freely admit to learning what people mean and all these words and labels used to describe what folks believe gets confusing.

I don't expect to ever come to All wisdom and all knowledge and to be right 100% of the time,, because I I ow that would foster pride in me.

So God keeps me humble by showing me that no matter how much I learn, He will always have more to teach me.

I can stand upon the Truth God has given me: Jesus is my Lord and Savior. No matter what others think of me, I know God loves me and calls me His beloved child and no one and no thing, not even me will change that fact. However, that fact has changed me and how I look at the world.

God never told me to tell the world how right I am and how smart I am, but to testify to His mercy and grace.

He has taught me that wisdom without love, is not from Him.

And "love" with out Truth is just a lie.

So yeah if you wish to judge or condemn me for standing back and listening, so be it.

If I am wrong for NOT jumping to the conclusion that just because someone disagrees with me, THEY MUST BE A HERETIC AND WOLF AND FALSE TEACHER AND HYPOCRITE, etc.

If that is what it means to "play both sides", then I stand rightly accused.

One of the hardest lessons God ever taught me was the need to forgive and love my enemies.

Most people see it as a weakness. Some have called it appeasing people.

I call it the Holy Spirit working in my heart and mind.

Has He taught you the same lesson?
I never condemned you. In fact, I've said some pretty good things about you. This is why I'm done.
 
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Ariel82

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I never condemned you. In fact, I've said some pretty good things about you. This is why I'm done.
You have been decent.

, but you don't have to look far to see why I feel condemned and your words just echo what he has said.

Anyway I decided it wasn't worth it. Which is why I deleted the post,
 

Roughsoul1991

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I should clarify, most who claims to be Christians, claim to believe that we should all live holy lives.

Except maybe the WOF folks.

Displaying heavenly wisdom and the fruit of the spirit and maturity in Christ....that on the other hand is in short supply.
Its on short supply and even though i believe these are believers but more like the ones who remain in infancy and prefer it that way. They like all the hype of Jesus but not the complete surrender.

And just as any infant that lacks nutrition they will grow weak and possibly from that weakness choose to walk away.

They make a habit of ignoring and grieving the Spirit, rebelling from God and it only gets easier as willingly chosen.

Unto the point the reprobation of the mind occurs.
 
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Ariel82

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I actually came back to post this excerpt from the website..

TULIP and Reformed Theology: Irresistible Grace

Irresistible grace does not mean that God’s grace is incapable of being resisted. Indeed, we are capable of resisting God’s grace, and we do resist it. The idea is that God’s grace is so powerful that it has the capacity to overcome our natural resistance to it. It is not that the Holy Spirit drags people kicking and screaming to Christ against their wills. The Holy Spirit changes the inclination and disposition of our wills, so that whereas we were previously unwilling to embrace Christ, now we are willing, and more than willing. Indeed, we aren’t dragged to Christ, we run to Christ, and we embrace Him joyfully because the Spirit has changed our hearts. They are no longer hearts of stone that are impervious to the commands of God and to the invitations of the gospel. God melts the hardness of our hearts when He makes us new creatures. The Holy Spirit resurrects us from spiritual death, so that we come to Christ because we want to come to Christ. The reason we want to come to Christ is because God has already done a work of grace in our souls. Without that work, we would never have any desire to come to Christ. That’s why we say that regeneration precedes faith.
So if regeneration happens before belief, then when does the person become "born again"?

After the verbal confession of faith that shows an inward change?

Or were they considered born again when the regeneration process started?
 
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Ariel82

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Roughsoul let's discuss in another thread, hate to derail Kalya's again.
 
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Like this post, it about what Calvinist believe about others, but is that the purpose of the thread?

A free platform to make assertations of others beliefs?

Any proof that Arminians teach a form of Pelagianism?
Well, this Calvinist was warning Kayla that trying to figure out the pelagians and semi-plagians was like trying to fit the 5-points from the 4 points -- a waste of time.

Why, you think she should waste her time?
 
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Hyper Calvinist are real. It's spoken against on Reformed websites.

This is the BDF, do you really expect only Calvinist to be on the thread?

Most of the people on this thread ARE NOT FIVE POINT CALVINIST, should they stop posting?

Most call themselves reformed. Wesley considered himself reformed as well, but others have labeled him Arminian and now some would label all Arminians as having some form of Pelagianism.

Which seems to me to be equal to say all Calvinist believe as Hyper Calvinist do because a small sect does.

It's not honest dialogue.
Most of the people on this thread have no interest in learning what Calvinism means either. You're point? There are quite a few Calvinist ion here. A problem with that?
 
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pottersclay

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I like Calvin but I don't think he'd be anything without hobbs. You need both I guess. So I guess I'm undecided unless you include hobbs which then I am a Calvinist.
 
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Also what happens to Non elect babies?

Depleted says she doesn't know.

I know a Baptist preacher tell me that babies get a free pass until the age of accountability.

Is there a universal Calvinistic answer?

How do you understand and explain limited atonement?

PS. I thought you were practicing not fighting Lynn? I read your post after making mine, but I will respect your wishes and not post your forbbiden word, since it bugs you so much.
Age of accountability is definitely not a Reformed Theology belief.

God limitly atones to some people.
 
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I don't believe regeneration is the same as rebirth or to be born again by the Holy Spirit.

To me it's the same as when God in the Old testament sent prophets to warn people. Totally different then when He sent His Holy Spirit to live in the hearts of His people.

Again we are back to defining terms.

Does anyone else have a different definition for "regeneration"?

I define it as when God grace moves into the world to bring about good. However "good" does not equal salvation but more God's providence for all people.
You don't have to believe what it means, but it means the same thing it means in dictionaries and Christian sites.
 

Angela53510

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I'm super late to the thread, just like I was super late to declare myself Reformed!

I fit best with Baptists. I think Lynn asked which Baptists were Reformed? Well, any Baptist that wants to be. Baptists are not a homologous group. True, there are independent fundamentalists, but they are pretty top down driven, which defies the basic Baptist principle of "authority of the believer." In other words, find it in the Bible, and believe it. Forget about the words of men. In the Southern Baptist Convention, where I went to seminary, (the Canadian version, of course!) we had a separate convention under the general umbrella for Reformed Baptists. They had conferences, brought in speakers, and generally fellowshipped with one another. I found out one noon hour lunch in a Vietnamese restaurant, when the "Reformed" Baptists made the mistake of talking about Reformed theology and business in front of me. But, not to worry, I never told a soul!

Except of course, we never do forget about the words of men! In seminary, we studied all the different versions of soteriology. That was the first time I was exposed to TULIP. I decided I could agree with 2 1/2 points. But not 2 1/2! But I really liked the emphasis on the "sovereignty of God." That is what got me reading and listening more. That really was what I had always believed, despite being in Pentecostal/Arminian churches for many years.

To me, the Sovereignty of God, or as I like to call it "God is in control," is one of the basics of my faith and God. Because, why would anyone want to serve a God who is not sovereign. Another reason I DETEST Open Theism. I'm not experienced in Reformed Doctrine like some are on this post, but for me, God's sovereignty defines what it is to be Reformed (Correct me if I am wrong.)

A year or so ago, Lynn recommended a book by RC Sproule - "What is Reformed Theology?" I got it and read it, more from an outsiders perspective. Wow! Every objection I had on those "other" 2 1/2 points he answered. In fact, I walked away kind of stunned. Why was anyone teaching/preaching anything but this?

As far as amillennialism, just so people know, some of us do not believe we return to heaven when Jesus returns. There are a lot of us who believe that we remain on a renewed earth. Because I don't see the promise of heaven anywhere in the Bible for believers. True, there is Revelation, but it is symbolic, apocalyptic literature, and I don't claim to understand it all. I am also a partial preteriste, and I was reading a book by someone who kept referring to Amills as people who think they are going to heaven when Jesus returns. So I rechecked my facts, and turns out there are two groups. And if not, well, there is me, and then the group of all the others! LOL
 
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Ariel82

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You don't have to believe what it means, but it means the same thing it means in dictionaries and Christian sites.
Maybe on Christian sites but the dictionary says this:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/regeneration
Definition of regeneration
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: an act or the process of regenerating : the state of being regenerated
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: spiritual renewal or revival
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: renewal or restoration of a body, bodily part, or biological system (such as a forest) after injury or as a normal process
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: utilization by special devices of heat or other products that would ordinarily be lost

noun re·gen·er·a·tion \ri-ˌjen-ə-ˈrā-shən, ˌrē-\
Medical Definition of regeneration
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: an act or the process of regenerating : the state of being regenerated
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: the renewal, regrowth, or restoration of a body or a bodily part, tissue, or substance after injury or as a normal bodily process continual regeneration of epithelial cells regeneration of the uterine lining—compare regulation
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The first time I heard it was a science text book and it talked about regrowing an replacement organ.

I didn't realize that Christianize had specifically redefined it as the new birth.

So you believe folks get born again before they have a saving faith?
 
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