well since Ironically noone seemed to say this in this introduction thread,Welcome here you can talk to bible smart people(those who don't blab on forever without noticing you that is lol)and possibly make new friends,and yeah it's good to be careful in who you talk to not just in pm messages,any talking anywhere,but you're clearly smart(read through the posts in this thread,yes people can talk too much lol)so I'm sure you'll know some weirdo creeper easy,and on the topic of pm messages,I've had no problems,some pm message me before talking to me in the forums,some it's just the opposite,me I don't mind at all,one woman/girl pmed me just to apologize for accidentally using my quote when trying to tell a different guy that he was rude,and I pretty much told her it wasn't a problem,in fact I told her that I'm rude sometimes anyways lol so no harm done,for me it's been easy finding people to talk to on here,I met magenta,and blue lady bug first,magenta through sparkly welcoming posts,blue lady bug through smart alec posts of to not post long wall posts....like this one oops,I'm sure you'll fit in fine,most are forgiving and understanding(I think blue lady bug is...though that cat of hers seems to follow me everywhere)just start with a topic,it doesn't have to be biblical, it could be your favorite celebrity,your new hair style,a problem,a memory,your favorite song or poem,just be sure to know which forums are best for your topic then post a thread(though honestly some of the forums are so similar that I couldn't figure for awhile where to post at,got an ear full or two,but for the most part most people understand,you're still learning)well once again welcome,and I hope you like it here!