You're first paragraph has me lost. I've not went back and forth nor told anyone anything about how anything should go.. maybe you're "you" is a general term here
"I do not think you guys are paying attention to what other tongue speakers are saying. Those who speak differently, know not to vote in this survey, because they know you will get on their cases for saying tongues are a sign when you are saved or that you can receive the Holy Spirit "again" after salvation by a sign of tongues; and yet tongues are not to serve as a sign towards believers for anything."
To be clearer...
I do not think both of you guys are paying attention to what other tongue speakers are saying.
Those who speak differently, know not to vote in this survey, because they know you may get on their cases for saying tongues are a sign when believers are saved or that believers can receive the Holy Spirit "again" after salvation by a sign of tongues; and yet I am saying that tongues are not to serve as a sign towards believers for anything.
Does that make my meaning clearer, sister?