It seems to me that there are many people who are simply trying to "scripturally" get out of attending any kind of church.
Many scriptural references show that "the believers" met every first day of the week... many times it was in private homes, and other times it was in the temple courtyard, IIRC.
I wonder if the "anti-church" people were honest with themselves, would they be able to say they meet with other believers every week, or even every other week? In other words, on a regular basis, instead of attending a "church" ?
Perhaps a true self-examination is in order... to get to the bottom of why they don't want to attend "church"....
Honestly, I think sometimes we expend more energy trying to get OUT of doing something God wants us to do, than we would expend in simply DOING it...