Relationship advice needed

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I fell in love with this guy but because of bad timing and unfourtante circumstances we stopped talking to eachother 3 months ago. He lives in the states and I live in Canada, he moved home to his family temporarily who live in small community, because he was stressed out about his life. He just dropped off the earth and stopped talking to me out of nowhere and haven't heard from him since. He has a good heart, and I've never clicked with someone so well. I miss him a lot and I still want him in my future and I know what he did was out of stress. I'm not ready to reach out right now, but when the times right should I ask him how he's been? How should I go about this situation.
 
Treehugger said:
I fell in love with this guy but because of bad timing and unfourtante circumstances we stopped talking to eachother 3 months ago. He lives in the states and I live in Canada, he moved home to his family temporarily who live in small community, because he was stressed out about his life. He just dropped off the earth and stopped talking to me out of nowhere and haven't heard from him since. He has a good heart, and I've never clicked with someone so well. I miss him a lot and I still want him in my future and I know what he did was out of stress. I'm not ready to reach out right now, but when the times right should I ask him how he's been? How should I go about this situation.
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Seriously, I would forget about him.
 
Treehugger said:
I fell in love with this guy but because of bad timing and unfourtante circumstances we stopped talking to eachother 3 months ago. He lives in the states and I live in Canada, he moved home to his family temporarily who live in small community, because he was stressed out about his life. He just dropped off the earth and stopped talking to me out of nowhere and haven't heard from him since. He has a good heart, and I've never clicked with someone so well. I miss him a lot and I still want him in my future and I know what he did was out of stress. I'm not ready to reach out right now, but when the times right should I ask him how he's been? How should I go about this situation.
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I don't mean to be tactless, but the chances of him talking with you any further are slim to none in my opinion. And even if he did start talking to you again, that's not really the kind of guy you want to pursue a future with is it? If he returned your feelings or at the very least saw that you had feelings and is a decent enough human to know how to respect people, he should have let you known that he was severing communication even if it's only for a little while.

I know it's tough. I think I have that situation developing right now, albeit on vastly smaller emotional and investment scale. When someone stops talking to you, they are showing by their actions that they don't like you. Don't harbor emotions for someone who does not like you back. It's masochism. If someone doesn't want to be with you, by default, that makes them a terrible choice. I know that me saying that doesn't help your emotions, but give it some time. He was unwilling to recognize how great you are. Find someone who does.
 
He sounds like a flake. You can do better than some flaky guy.
 
If he likes you he will contact you..
3 months is a long time for not talking each other..
if he want you into his life he will makes sure to always have communication with you :)
 
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