Ideas to help Blain and steph be together

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Blain

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So I guys I really need some help here. As many of you know I have for a long time been trying to find a way to make enough money to be able to afford a small apartment in pheonix arizona so i can be with my beloved stephanie but there are several factors in the way of this. I am on disability for several reasons and one of them is that my body due to cancer from my past does not work like everyone else's, I have tried to work but my body wears out much faster than the average person and even if I do work I lose a dollar for every two dollars I make and I get 740 dollars a month so depending on the hours and the pay you basically cut that by more than half. Also I lose my insurance if I work a normal job which pays for my medicine that I could not afford otherwise.

Honestly I am tired of hoping one day she and I can be together but I cannot seem to figure out a way to make enough money to live there, does anyone have any ideas that might work? it would be amazing if it's true that if you make money from the internet it doesn't take away from my check but the main issue is insurance
 
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NoNameMcgee

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driving uber if your car qualifies

also
lyft provides a car in certain states

both can earn over 800 a week


also

look into "amazon flex"

its a delivery service you use your OWN car to deliver packages

18$ hour on normal shift

special shifts up to 24$ an hour

easily get 8 hours a day

(only requires a back ground check and car)
 

Blain

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driving uber if your car qualifies

also
lyft provides a car in certain states

both can earn over 800 a week


also

look into "amazon flex"

its a delivery service you use your OWN car to deliver packages

18$ hour on normal shift

special shifts up to 24$ an hour

easily get 8 hours a day

(only requires a back ground check and car)
Ah sadly I cannot drive the doctors say it would be to much stress on my mind and honestly I would agree i have seen me on a day to day basis lol
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Ah sadly I cannot drive the doctors say it would be to much stress on my mind and honestly I would agree i have seen me on a day to day basis lol
hmmmm
not even a fork lift?

im having trouble of thinkin of something other than driving or very labor intensive...

im so sorry man

:/
 

Blain

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hmmmm
not even a fork lift?

im having trouble of thinkin of something other than driving or very labor intensive...

im so sorry man

:/
no worries, like I said my body does not work like everyone elses and that means mentally too, I love physical labor i have no idea why but sadly my body has very big limitations and when I do manual labor I go all out I give it everything I have but that is also my weakness because my body cannot handle what others can and so I easily overwork myself and then am sick for like three days lol
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Dunno how stuff works over there with salaries, insurance etc.

As for jobs ... most will strain you in some way or another
Either it is labour intensive , or you still still .... neither are good :p

Could you for instance be a ....hum, not sure what it is called ... one of those people who sit in the room during school exams and make sure no one cheats? It would probably be sporadic work, but at least provide some extra income
 

Blain

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Dunno how stuff works over there with salaries, insurance etc.

As for jobs ... most will strain you in some way or another
Either it is labour intensive , or you still still .... neither are good :p

Could you for instance be a ....hum, not sure what it is called ... one of those people who sit in the room during school exams and make sure no one cheats? It would probably be sporadic work, but at least provide some extra income
hmm... i don't know I would have to ask social security about that they are the ones who decide it all
 

ArtsieSteph

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Awww sweetie....I love you so much. We have to pray God opens the door, either on here or through some other means
 
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I'll be praying for you.
There must be a solution.
Arizona seems like a good state for you,
houses don't cost a lot and you could probably afford one
or an apt. Steph could work --- that might cover it.
The most important thing is to be together, not HOW you live.
You'd be surprised on how little people can live.
I've seen it here by me.
God will give you an idea...
 

SAS

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Churches sponsor and give support to people who are transitioning to a new area.
You could look into that..

There must be connection to more affordable housing ie renting a room, as I would think most of your time would be away from your place.... it would be just to sleep.. have you/alone time ect.

A Church might be able to help with that.

I would also try and look up government resources that you could access now... and later, when you are seen as a resident to that State/City. I would look on government sites as well as blog forum.. people who know and are in the system, with similar needs.

God bless you both,
I will join my prayers up for you both as well,
to open the right doors and bring the right people in both your paths.
AND REMEMBER IF BOTH OF YOU BELIEVE THIS IS OF GOD...
IT SHALL BE DONE!!!!!!
:)
 

TruthTalk

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I'll be praying for you.
There must be a solution.
Arizona seems like a good state for you,
houses don't cost a lot and you could probably afford one
or an apt. Steph could work --- that might cover it.
The most important thing is to be together, not HOW you live.
You'd be surprised on how little people can live.
I've seen it here by me.
God will give you an idea...
I agree with you FranC 100 percent - little miracles happen everyday but we need to look for them.
 
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So I guys I really need some help here. As many of you know I have for a long time been trying to find a way to make enough money to be able to afford a small apartment in pheonix arizona so i can be with my beloved stephanie but there are several factors in the way of this. I am on disability for several reasons and one of them is that my body due to cancer from my past does not work like everyone else's, I have tried to work but my body wears out much faster than the average person and even if I do work I lose a dollar for every two dollars I make and I get 740 dollars a month so depending on the hours and the pay you basically cut that by more than half. Also I lose my insurance if I work a normal job which pays for my medicine that I could not afford otherwise.

Honestly I am tired of hoping one day she and I can be together but I cannot seem to figure out a way to make enough money to live there, does anyone have any ideas that might work? it would be amazing if it's true that if you make money from the internet it doesn't take away from my check but the main issue is insurance
I tried explaining this to Steph a while ago. Basically, create a blog about your favorite subject, (Pokemon?), learn SEO and PPC advertising, keep working the site, (join forums about your favorite subject, make friends, visit their site, talk about the subject, include links to your site in your signy), keep learning, keep building, keep working your blog, until you get lots of people visiting, and the ads that appear will become related to your keywords.

Honest, it takes about 20 hours a week, every week, any hours you want, and keep plugging. In 1-3 years you start making reasonable income. People make good income doing this. Your own hours. Might want to invest in a yearly URL, but learn PPC and SEO first. (And, do not read the ad-links on search result pages, because all they want is your money to do what you can do yourself.)

It's the only work-at-home, set-my-own-hours, no-exertion way of making money I know, but the money won't show up for a year or two, so most people quit before they see the results.

July 28, 2019 is coming whether you do this or not. If you do nothing, you'll be a little poorer when it gets here. (Let's face it, SSDI doesn't even give us COL raises, so each year we get just a little poorer.) If you do this, by then you'll be making money. I can't tell you how much, because it really depends on how committed you are and how your health is. But it is worth it, if you go for it.

First step: Learn how. The info is free online, so go for it.
 
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wait on Christ's timing, and please precious-ones, put each-other FIRST...:):cool:
 

ArtsieSteph

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Yeah I started a blog, but I guess we could do another one....? Like that modest nerd one I was talking about? Or if Blainy wanted to he could do one to help pokemon players? :D
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Yeah I started a blog, but I guess we could do another one....? Like that modest nerd one I was talking about? Or if Blainy wanted to he could do one to help pokemon players? :D
you guys could both start a

"how to" youtube channel drawing as well

o_o

both of you are very good at that
 
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no worries, like I said my body does not work like everyone elses and that means mentally too, I love physical labor i have no idea why but sadly my body has very big limitations and when I do manual labor I go all out I give it everything I have but that is also my weakness because my body cannot handle what others can and so I easily overwork myself and then am sick for like three days lol
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just a HI to one of our favorite people's - Blain, this is just a share; for a long time now, we see
that many of the questions you ask or what you are wondering about, etc...and this is rare,
'you mostly answer your own questions' in your Post! if someone told me this, I'd be out
looking real confident and ready for almost anything = Truth/Trust is so rare these days
Trust Jesus and yourself next!.:)..

we all will eventually get a feel of our 'limits', and both of us have learned that it's a good thing
to know and feel, the whole of ourselves, no matter how old or new we are...

you are very blessed: lots of people here have their own understanding of you and your
situation, 'what a blessing for us', we don't have to 'focus on ourselves quite as much', lol...
and we get to Love even more:eek:....
 
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I tried explaining this to Steph a while ago. Basically, create a blog about your favorite subject, (Pokemon?), learn SEO and PPC advertising, keep working the site, (join forums about your favorite subject, make friends, visit their site, talk about the subject, include links to your site in your signy), keep learning, keep building, keep working your blog, until you get lots of people visiting, and the ads that appear will become related to your keywords.

Honest, it takes about 20 hours a week, every week, any hours you want, and keep plugging. In 1-3 years you start making reasonable income. People make good income doing this. Your own hours. Might want to invest in a yearly URL, but learn PPC and SEO first. (And, do not read the ad-links on search result pages, because all they want is your money to do what you can do yourself.)

It's the only work-at-home, set-my-own-hours, no-exertion way of making money I know, but the money won't show up for a year or two, so most people quit before they see the results.

July 28, 2019 is coming whether you do this or not. If you do nothing, you'll be a little poorer when it gets here. (Let's face it, SSDI doesn't even give us COL raises, so each year we get just a little poorer.) If you do this, by then you'll be making money. I can't tell you how much, because it really depends on how committed you are and how your health is. But it is worth it, if you go for it.

First step: Learn how. The info is free online, so go for it.
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WOW!!! some one' stepping-up and sounding like they really CARE, sharing their
real life's experiences for FREE!!!.:eek:. it is embarrassing for my 'fellows', that
will a true sister ask for money for something that Jesus begged us to share...

anyone remember or read what a 'free-will-gift' it...let's ask Penn...
 
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we give what we have and share what is left, this is what people like Lynn do/.//

and of coarse there is the fact that someone has a core of morality, morality?

thanks Lynn,
I believe that you are one of the reasons that our Father in heaven led us here...
 
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WOW!!! some one' stepping-up and sounding like they really CARE, sharing their
real life's experiences for FREE!!!.:eek:. it is embarrassing for my 'fellows', that
will a true sister ask for money for something that Jesus begged us to share...

anyone remember or read what a 'free-will-gift' it...let's ask Penn...
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just to clear this up, 'we're talking about 'TV-TELEVANGELISTS'...you know, the rich',
the ones
who 'steal old ladies, PURSES/PENTIONS', instead of Loving them and taking CARE of them...
 
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joefizz

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So I guys I really need some help here. As many of you know I have for a long time been trying to find a way to make enough money to be able to afford a small apartment in pheonix arizona so i can be with my beloved stephanie but there are several factors in the way of this. I am on disability for several reasons and one of them is that my body due to cancer from my past does not work like everyone else's, I have tried to work but my body wears out much faster than the average person and even if I do work I lose a dollar for every two dollars I make and I get 740 dollars a month so depending on the hours and the pay you basically cut that by more than half. Also I lose my insurance if I work a normal job which pays for my medicine that I could not afford otherwise.

Honestly I am tired of hoping one day she and I can be together but I cannot seem to figure out a way to make enough money to live there, does anyone have any ideas that might work? it would be amazing if it's true that if you make money from the internet it doesn't take away from my check but the main issue is insurance
well if you are good at "sales" there is an indoor window sales job on Arizona's craigslist online!
I got my job on craigslist just be careful of scams!