Help. Married a Muslim who lied about it.

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Man, do your homework. If you were in love would you do Anything to win her? Yes, you probably would if he was him.
 
I do feel he cares for me. But he betrayed me and we are not worshiping the same God. That destroyed my trust and if we are not spiritually together under the same God how can our marriage work?
 
Foxlot said:
How do you know he don't like her? Even if he didn't, why would he marry her in to first place then.
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Did I say he doesn't? No. Don't put words in my mouth. But when someone is manipulative and dishonest to get their own way that is Not loving. Doesn't take a genius to know that is selfish behavior. And selfishness is the opposite of loving.
Why do plenty of other Muslim men do this very same thing? Many Muslims have a warped sense of reality and a need for control. As well as forcing their religion on people. Seems marriage is a great place for these things.
Often times in these marriages the men want to "visit" their homeland or Muslim country and once there refuse to leave. Forcing the women to stay since the laws work against women. Just because you can't understand something doesn't mean there is no answer in the mind if another.
 
Karchani said:
I do feel he cares for me. But he betrayed me and we are not worshiping the same God. That destroyed my trust and if we are not spiritually together under the same God how can our marriage work?
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It won't. He got married under false pretenses.

You've got to end this marriage.
 
Foxlot said:
Man, do your homework. If you were in love would you do Anything to win her? Yes, you probably would if he was him.
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You're worried that Jesus will be upset over hurt feelings but justify lying to get what you want, even if it hurts someone you "care" for?
You're either an idiot or a troll. Either way I'm done with you.
 
Karchani said:
No I am not Foxlot. And I don't understand the Denmark part. Can anyone explain?
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It's addressing a line from the play Hamlet, by William Shakespeare. An officer of the palace guard says this after the ghost of the dead king appears, walking over the palace walls. Note : “Something is rotten in the state of Denmark” is used to describe corruption or a situation in which something is wrong.
 
Willie-T said:
I assume everyone here has read the play, "Hamlet."
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So what you're not saying is that you think the OP already has a new
husband picked out and is looking for justification to leave her current one?
I hate to put words in peoples' mouths, but I'm not a beat-around-the-bush kind of person.
 
Huckleberry said:
So what you're not saying is that you think the OP already has a new
husband picked out and is looking for justification to leave her current one?
I hate to put words in peoples' mouths, but I'm not a beat-around-the-bush kind of person.
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That could be one thought. Another simpler one has only five letters.... It begins with T and ends with L.
 
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Karchani said:
What can I do. I married a Muslim who said he converted to Christian. I told him when I met him that I can not marry a Muslim. Now he says he is Muslim and will always be Muslim. He has also lied about who he is and what he thinks. One example, I home school and he knew this before we married. It was really important to me. Now he has a problem with it. My main problem is he is Muslim and I am Christian. This is a major problem for me. How do we have a future. I wanted kids but not now because of his religion. Do I divorce him?
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Try for an annulment. I know that sounds like a Catholic thing, but there are times when most Christian churches will void the marriage when the recent spouse just out and out lied on who he/she is. You married a stranger. Assuming you're newly married you can unmarry. And assuming he lied during the marriage ceremony, (because pastors tend to want to know the couple is the same religion), you've got the very witness you need -- the pastor who married you. He lied to him too.
 
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