Help. Married a Muslim who lied about it.

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Huckleberry

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Foxlot said:
And no, I'm not her, what makes you think that? And how dare you.
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Chill buddy.
I was just trying to figure out what was being hinted at.
People have been known to come on here and have conversations with themselves.
 
notuptome

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So there are already children in this situation? What happened to the prior marriage?

Marriage is a covenant relationship. First the parties make a covenant with God then with each other.

Prospects for a happy outcome are nil.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
jenniferand2

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Karchani said:
No Kids, That is one problem. We wanted kids. And now because of his religion I can't have them with him. So this has now messed with my future.
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I would divorce him and leave he lied to you and that is not cool at all.. he is the devil in disguise if he lied that much and played into your religious beliefs like that. I would divorce him and run for the hills. nothing good about being married to a person who lies especially about religion and i would say this even if he lied about being catholic or a worshiper of the devil it does not matter what religion he has and lied about it is wrong. Trust me nothing good comes out of a person who lies like that.
 
Magenta

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J7 said:
If you have kids, they will be Halal
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If Karchani has children with her current husband, they will be MUSLIM.

Unfortunately, Muslims are encouraged to LIE for the cause of the spread of Islam (it is called taqiyya), and childbirth rates is one of the ways Islam is spread, for any children of a Muslim man are automatically considered Muslim.


 
Magenta

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Willie-T said:
So, I would be correct, had I posted either 4, or 5?
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Technically speaking, there are only four letters in the word, but five characters total, because one of the letters is repeated. So you could make an argument either way, I suppose :D
 
BillG

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Magenta said:
If Karchani has children with her current husband, they will be MUSLIM.

Unfortunately, Muslims are encouraged to LIE for the cause of the spread of Islam (it is called taqiyya), and childbirth rates is one of the ways Islam is spread, for any children of a Muslim man are automatically considered Muslim.
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My grandad was allowed to come over to the UK because he served in the British Army in what is now Pakistan.

My mum married my dad who was catholic.

I am one of 3 brothers and when we were born we were lifted up to allah.
Me and my second brother were lifted up verbally and the youngest lifted up physically.
 
Corbinscam

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Willie-T said:
You learn early in this game that the mere fact of being a man usually makes you wrong.
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I was going to point out that if you were arguing with a woman you were wrong no matter what...but I decided I didn't want to deal with the lecture I'd get over how wrong I was to say that lol. Trust me...I learned that one already and I'm reminded often.
 
BillG

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Willie-T said:
You learn early in this game that the mere fact of being a man usually makes you wrong.
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Only usually? Mind you there is the odd occasion?

 
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blue_ladybug said:
And that assumption would be wrong.. lol
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Thank you! You and I have one obviously glaring character trait in common. We're very upfront. But sometimes I get embarrassed by not knowing stuff, so keep quiet. So thank you for saying what I was thinking.

(I got Romeo and Juliet in high school. lol)
 
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Corbinscam said:
I was going to point out that if you were arguing with a woman you were wrong no matter what...but I decided I didn't want to deal with the lecture I'd get over how wrong I was to say that lol. Trust me...I learned that one already and I'm reminded often.
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What lecture? You're a guy. Guys are always wrong except when they acknowledge that and acknowledge gals are always right.



(And if you believe any, or all, of this, I have some property just east of Atlantic City to sell you.)
 
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joefizz

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What lecture? You're a guy. Guys are always wrong except when they acknowledge that and acknowledge gals are always right.



(And if you believe any, or all, of this, I have some property just east of Atlantic City to sell you.)
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And in which case once again I'm frank sinatra!(single still)
 
OneFaith

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Karchani said:
What can I do. I married a Muslim who said he converted to Christian. I told him when I met him that I can not marry a Muslim. Now he says he is Muslim and will always be Muslim. He has also lied about who he is and what he thinks. One example, I home school and he knew this before we married. It was really important to me. Now he has a problem with it. My main problem is he is Muslim and I am Christian. This is a major problem for me. How do we have a future. I wanted kids but not now because of his religion. Do I divorce him?
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This is why you have to take time to really get to know someone before you marry them. Test them, study with them, ask them questions. I would be so angry and mostly devestated to be in your shoes. I am a strong Christian, and I would not give up Christianity for no one, even if my life was at stake. No way!!! Not for a milla-second! The fact that he would hide it or give it up temporarily says that he is not strong in his, so maybe there's hope he'll embrace Christianity. If he doesn't, it will be in his face all the time anyways because you will not give it up.

If you have not consecrated the marriage with sex yet, don't! Get it annulled instead. If you are stuck in the marriage, throw a fit every single time and do not allow relics, false gods, or false worship in your home! Not for even a second, smash them, I'm so serious- God comes first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Karchani

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He is willing to learn more. And he knows i will not give up Jesus. I have made it very clear that islam is from satan and Jesus is the only way.
 
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