Is it better to burn with passion??

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As much as is within my capacity to love. I wonder if I really know how to love, to be honest.
Well I believe you certainly have the right capacity for love but it just seems this guy you love isn't mutual in even being friendly and that says alot,if there was someone I was interested in but wouldn't be even mutually friendly with me then I wouldn't seek them anymore,you seem to be the one reaching out but he is the one mixed up or has bad values,you can wait for him to get his brain unscrambled and start noticing you,but it may be awhile and you should always keep in mind that such waiting may be wasted on him,as I have said before waiting on someone is "honorable",but if the person you are interested in doesn't even get attention held by you(actually acknowledges some quality they like about you or is impressed with you) then it may be better to seek someone else.
 
Well I believe you certainly have the right capacity for love but it just seems this guy you love isn't mutual in even being friendly and that says alot,if there was someone I was interested in but wouldn't be even mutually friendly with me then I wouldn't seek them anymore,you seem to be the one reaching out but he is the one mixed up or has bad values,you can wait for him to get his brain unscrambled and start noticing you,but it may be awhile and you should always keep in mind that such waiting may be wasted on him,as I have said before waiting on someone is "honorable",but if the person you are interested in doesn't even get attention held by you(actually acknowledges some quality they like about you or is impressed with you) then it may be better to seek someone else.
Hence my two year plan. Two more years will make a total of five. It is not wasted time. I think he does want to be friends or frenemies, but romance may be out of the equation for him.
 
No, it is not better to burn with passion. That is why it says to marry. Get yourself a plan. I’ve got a two year plan. If the one I want does not come around by then, I’ll latch on to the first single man over 18 who appears interested. At this point, the only requirement is being born with XY sex chromosomes, but in two years, that may be negotiable, too.

I am happy you have set a deadline for your waiting. Seriously though, no man is worth waiting for that long.
 
I am happy you have set a deadline for your waiting. Seriously though, no man is worth waiting for that long.
27-14=? 13 years. Whoa im still livin the dreeaammm im past my deadline, love endures lol yikes
 
I am happy you have set a deadline for your waiting. Seriously though, no man is worth waiting for that long.
I don’t know. Penelope waited 7 years for Odysseus. I’d wait forever, but I’m not ethereal. 5 years seems like small potatoes, to be quite honest.
 
I think I'll throw myself a pity-party, I'm playing Texas music and is homesick as a jimmy green. Haha.

Ougtha go to bed, it's way past midnight here.
 
No, not gonna happen.

In my heart I'm still married, and will remain so.
Oh, I know what you mean. I’m like that too, but need physical intimacy before I die, so I will kind of be a bigamist.