Struggling to let go
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You are allowing him to make you feel awful. Why did you let him back into your life when you knew what he was like? You are worth so much more than what he has to offer, and deserve to be treated better than the standard he has already shown you. Since you tolerate it by staying, regardless of how much you may complain about it, you give him the message that it is okay to abuse you. Walk away and don't look back! Welcome to CC. I hope you enjoy your time with us 
It may well be that your mind believes that he is all you deserve.....
But your mind must realize that you are loved by God and therefore you are lovable and should not be accepting a man who does not really love you but is simply using and abusing you..
The key to ending this toxic relationship lays within you.. It's about you coming to the knowledge of your real worth as a human being.. You need to believe you are more valuable.. You need to believe you do not deserve to be treated like trash..
May the LORD lift you up and reveal to you that you are far more precious then you would have ever imagined..
He has torn me down to where I don't feel good enough. If i was good enough he wouldn't drink so much he would call and brighten my day ect. I work hard daily to become a better christian mom and woman and it seems like no man will ever truly love me the way I should be loved.
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Sweetmorningdew78
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Remember that it is not your fault...He chooses to destroy his life...he chooses to live that way...don't Blame yourself sister...
Remember that you are loved...God cares for you ❤
Welcome to CC sis
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joefizz
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Well God/Jesus won't let you down and there is a person for everyone possibly,don't slam the door shut on hopes you have for a bright future!
There are people like this guy that will be cruel and demeaning,and don't appreciate anything or anyone in their life and seek to put down others so they can continue in misery and idleness,don't beat yourself up,you are clearly not the one who needs a change,I know God says not to hate but I really can't stand any men that treat women as objects or get them feeling like they are always the problem.
Men are to be heads of households,not heads with no sense or decency.
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Welcome here you can discuss with bible smart people and possibly make new friends,hope you like it here!
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