My situation is with an ex boyfriend. We broke up about a month nearly 2 months ago. He is a Muslim and I am a Catholic. We did talk about our religions with each other and he was willing to know more about my religion as well as I was willing to know about his religion. But I made it clear that I would never convert and I am a happy Catholic. He was happy with my decision but he did doubt about it while we were together because he wasn't sure how his family would react to it. We still continued the relationship because he told me how much he loves me and I loved him too (I still am).
He broke up with me because he told me that he came to a conclusion that he was not ready for a relationship and he still has feelings for me but at that moment, he isn't ready. He said he still wants to keep me as a close person in his life because he cares for me but he's going through a lot and needs to get himself together. He said if the relationship is meant to be, it will come back to us and I told him I understood and am willing to still be there for him. We still do talk nearly everyday and if not everyday, every other day but I feel like he is getting quite distant now. He would give me short replies, read my messages and not reply. I would try to make the conversation flow but then down the line he would just stop replying. I do know he messaged another girl telling her she's good looking and trying to get to know her I guess on 'that' level'. The thing is if I am not feeling well or seem down, he would still ask if I'm okay and tries to cheer me up.
I know we are not together but it does hurt knowing that I feel like he's trying to pursue another girl. It could be my overreaction but in my heart and gut feeling, I still feel like he is the one. Our relationship was so great. We could spend hours talking and not get bored and he made me feel so loved. We trusted each other, we were able to communicate with each other and even talk about how great God is. I personally still feel like there is hope and I do pray about this but I do think maybe not talking to him everyday would help. The thought of him talking to another girl hurts just because I wish we were still together. I don't think being with him even though he is a Muslim is a bad thing. I did not plan on falling in love with a Muslim but it just came. I would just like some help and encouragement. Sorry about how long this is but thank you for taking the time to read it.
He broke up with me because he told me that he came to a conclusion that he was not ready for a relationship and he still has feelings for me but at that moment, he isn't ready. He said he still wants to keep me as a close person in his life because he cares for me but he's going through a lot and needs to get himself together. He said if the relationship is meant to be, it will come back to us and I told him I understood and am willing to still be there for him. We still do talk nearly everyday and if not everyday, every other day but I feel like he is getting quite distant now. He would give me short replies, read my messages and not reply. I would try to make the conversation flow but then down the line he would just stop replying. I do know he messaged another girl telling her she's good looking and trying to get to know her I guess on 'that' level'. The thing is if I am not feeling well or seem down, he would still ask if I'm okay and tries to cheer me up.
I know we are not together but it does hurt knowing that I feel like he's trying to pursue another girl. It could be my overreaction but in my heart and gut feeling, I still feel like he is the one. Our relationship was so great. We could spend hours talking and not get bored and he made me feel so loved. We trusted each other, we were able to communicate with each other and even talk about how great God is. I personally still feel like there is hope and I do pray about this but I do think maybe not talking to him everyday would help. The thought of him talking to another girl hurts just because I wish we were still together. I don't think being with him even though he is a Muslim is a bad thing. I did not plan on falling in love with a Muslim but it just came. I would just like some help and encouragement. Sorry about how long this is but thank you for taking the time to read it.
