sex before marriage?

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but how are you gonna know if you are even compatible?

it would be a shame to get to the wedding night and find out nothing works:)
 
greatkaw: u measure compatibillity through sex? that would be a shame if u do...and definitely shallow :)
 
debears, we need to seriously talk about this lol "We will wait till marriage" heh....just like to pick on ya :D
 
My return to this board will be like the sunrise, I will discern between True Biblical Theology and those 21st century Christians who want to condem 2 Saints in Love who engage in Pre Marital Sex. Everyone that ever mentioned Pre Marital status as either being Fornication or a sin will have their names showing in my post. There is 1 person in particular somewhere in the middle of all the pages who calls out everyone for their lack of knowledge on the Bible, this one I will torch with the TRUTH and expose him for his condeming nature.

You will know Yahweh, You wil know the Torah , You will Learn

WHO IS BETTER VERSED THAN ME IN THE LAW?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
 
Chris79 said:
My return to this board will be like the sunrise, I will discern between True Biblical Theology and those 21st century Christians who want to condem 2 Saints in Love who engage in Pre Marital Sex. Everyone that ever mentioned Pre Marital status as either being Fornication or a sin will have their names showing in my post. There is 1 person in particular somewhere in the middle of all the pages who calls out everyone for their lack of knowledge on the Bible, this one I will torch with the TRUTH and expose him for his condeming nature.

You will know Yahweh, You wil know the Torah , You will Learn

WHO IS BETTER VERSED THAN ME IN THE LAW?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
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Am i the only one who thinks this post is weird
 
Chris79 said:
My return to this board will be like the sunrise, I will discern between True Biblical Theology and those 21st century Christians who want to condem 2 Saints in Love who engage in Pre Marital Sex. Everyone that ever mentioned Pre Marital status as either being Fornication or a sin will have their names showing in my post. There is 1 person in particular somewhere in the middle of all the pages who calls out everyone for their lack of knowledge on the Bible, this one I will torch with the TRUTH and expose him for his condeming nature.

You will know Yahweh, You wil know the Torah , You will Learn

WHO IS BETTER VERSED THAN ME IN THE LAW?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
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I am also very concerned about one other thing. When you say torch do you mean this?? Actually, is this your hand as well?? I found it on google pictures. I didnt know if you torched things so often google thought it wise to put your arm holding a torch beside the word.

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Chris79 said:
My return to this board will be like the sunrise, I will discern between True Biblical Theology and those 21st century Christians who want to condem 2 Saints in Love who engage in Pre Marital Sex. Everyone that ever mentioned Pre Marital status as either being Fornication or a sin will have their names showing in my post. There is 1 person in particular somewhere in the middle of all the pages who calls out everyone for their lack of knowledge on the Bible, this one I will torch with the TRUTH and expose him for his condeming nature.

You will know Yahweh, You wil know the Torah , You will Learn

WHO IS BETTER VERSED THAN ME IN THE LAW?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
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Don’t provoke him. You’re only going to be torched with the truth all the more when he returns like the sunrise. Trust me, if there is one thing you don’t want to be torched with, it’s truth.

WHO KNOWS MORE ABOUT SMURF TRIVIA THAN ME?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
 
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No, i most certainly would not like to be torched with the truth. Sunrise will you please forgive me?
 
Chris79 said:
My return to this board will be like the sunrise, I will discern between True Biblical Theology and those 21st century Christians who want to condem 2 Saints in Love who engage in Pre Marital Sex. Everyone that ever mentioned Pre Marital status as either being Fornication or a sin will have their names showing in my post. There is 1 person in particular somewhere in the middle of all the pages who calls out everyone for their lack of knowledge on the Bible, this one I will torch with the TRUTH and expose him for his condeming nature.

You will know Yahweh, You wil know the Torah , You will Learn

WHO IS BETTER VERSED THAN ME IN THE LAW?? BRING THEM, WHERE ARE THEY?? THERE IS NONE
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Who are you to torch anyone with the truth? Who are you to think that you know more than our Lord. Take your own words... Read the word of God... Read the words of our Lord. He really doesnt send mixed messages in this regard. Its pretty much cut & dry premarital sex is actually marital. When you have sex, you are joined together. You post struck me as somewhat of a curse. An undeserved curse does not come to rest.

You seriously need to spend more time in the word of God & not just in justification of what you do. Either way you are covered by the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ but your posts could influence one and lead them on the path to distruction that is permiscuity. Believe me, I've been on that path prior to receiving the Lord and there was nothing satisfying about it at all... It was only turmoil & self condemnation and shame that led to murder.

Stop justifying not pleasing God and your relationship with God will flourish.

Bless your heart.
 
hmmm yes this is still going... this thread is so old. likein it???
 
IMOS I have an idea, go back to page 21 & 22 and read my posts, then tell me what my position is, ON THE LAW. I never once defended anyone who is premiscuous, I never even mentioned anything about the subject. My position is behind the Torah which states, if 2 Saints have pre marital sex , this is not Fornication and neither is it a sin. The Torah will show that.
So many things that I haven't even mentioned have been added to my argument in order to shoot it down. It's not that **** hard my post is only 2 and 3 pages away , or 1 click. Read what I said and compare it to the Bible. Do not give me the 21st century translated scripture and tell me it is THE ABSOLUTE. Only a dummy would believe that today's translation is perfect. I will show this also in a later post.
True Biblical Theology seeks to understand how biblical authors expressed themselves in the Greek language of New Testament times (not expanded by later Greek meanings)
Do you even comprehend that concept?
 
I read quite a few of the early posts but but dont have the time or energy to go through however many pages are posted on this topic. I was amazed by how many people were ok with the idea of sex before marriage. For me biblically I know its wrong and personally I feel its wrong. I dont need to test guys out, or practice in my mind, yeah that first time might be awful but it doesnt mean im not looking forward to it, and the fact that im saving it makes it extremely special in my mind.

Personally wiht my ex, i went much further than I should have didnt draw any good boundries and even though I know we both didnt believe in sex before marrigae it could have easily lead to that, but I felt the need to keep him around and kept stretching that line further and further. He ended up leaving me for the girl that he shared house with (not just the two of them) and then they even considered staying living together after everyone else moved out. I realized what God got me away from and how much better off I was. If i had slept with him, things would be so much harder right now. And in regards to waiting my best friend and her boyfriend are waiting till marriage to have their first kiss even, so its possible....
 
Sex before marriage is sin! Its sexual immorality... The body is a temple of God... One needs to repent of their sin. Trying to put things so as to justify oneself is trying to fool ones self. God is the same yesterday, today and forever...

When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. But I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. - 1 Corinthians 5:9-11
 
Romans 6

1 Well then, should we keep on sinning so that God can show us more and more of his wonderful grace? 2 Of course not! Since we have died to sin, how can we continue to live in it? 3 Or have you forgotten that when we were joined with Christ Jesus in baptism, we joined him in his death? 4 For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.

 5 Since we have been united with him in his death, we will also be raised to life as he was. 6 We know that our old sinful selves were crucified with Christ so that sin might lose its power in our lives. We are no longer slaves to sin. 7 For when we died with Christ we were set free from the power of sin. 8 And since we died with Christ, we know we will also live with him. 9 We are sure of this because Christ was raised from the dead, and he will never die again. Death no longer has any power over him. 10 When he died, he died once to break the power of sin. But now that he lives, he lives for the glory of God. 11 So you also should consider yourselves to be dead to the power of sin and alive to God through Christ Jesus.

12 Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires. 13 Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God. 14 Sin is no longer your master, for you no longer live under the requirements of the law. Instead, you live under the freedom of God’s grace.

15 Well then, since God’s grace has set us free from the law, does that mean we can go on sinning? Of course not! 16 Don’t you realize that you become the slave of whatever you choose to obey? You can be a slave to sin, which leads to death, or you can choose to obey God, which leads to righteous living. 17 Thank God! Once you were slaves of sin, but now you wholeheartedly obey this teaching we have given you. 18 Now you are free from your slavery to sin, and you have become slaves to righteous living.
19 Because of the weakness of your human nature, I am using the illustration of slavery to help you understand all this. Previously, you let yourselves be slaves to impurity and lawlessness, which led ever deeper into sin. Now you must give yourselves to be slaves to righteous living so that you will become holy.

20 When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the obligation to do right. 21 And what was the result? You are now ashamed of the things you used to do, things that end in eternal doom. 22 But now you are free from the power of sin and have become slaves of God. Now you do those things that lead to holiness and result in eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.
 
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