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[andrew12]

i try to get girl cristian friends but it is difficult , because i know that we must cultivate friendships , so.. and is so easy to get friends that are girls and not cristians one example when i talk to the cristians they talk to me little , but when i talk to a Buddhist these girls inspire with me and begin to talk and talk and talk hours .and i say one word and they say 100 words so for me it is strange and funny , one day i had a buddisht girlfriend but i quit her because the bible says that God doesnt please this. and these was the girl that i liked but i quit my will and follow God´s will. i felt so much axiety when i talked to her and i explained her and she understood me and we quit talking. why is so easy fro me get unbeliever friends and not cristian friend girls??

 

[Pheonix]

Because good christian women are far and few between. The ratio is something like 500:1 against.

 

[greatkraw]

Because good christian women are far and few between. The ratio is something like 500:1 against.

according to solomon less than 1 in 1 thousand

 

[andrew12]

ohh your answer , makes me think so much. than you so much.

 

[zavok]

you can say i had a similar experiences but the roles reversed you can read it on the teen fourm under broken hearts anyway maybe u can get more non christian girl friends becuase they like you for who you are and thats how they see you and maybe maybe for chrisitan girl there just looking for a potential husband and find it hard to make friends with guys... thats my guess

 

[andrew12]

hhmm.. i see , it makes sence but maybe could be another thing.

 

[greatkraw]

yeah I have been a member of some christian matchmaking web sites
the first thing they want to know is your earning potential
of course they dont make it so obvious
but when they say they want a guy who is ambitious; that is what they mean

the only girls I have come across who are not interested in your income are the ones looking for a quick fling - those on the non christian dating sites

 

[andrew12]

but if a girl looks just for a potential husband , when that potential husdbund spend a difficult situation , could that girl keep being faithful ?? because if girls see the potential as the priority in a guy , so what is going to happen when that priority get weaken??

 

[greatkraw]

but if a girl looks just for a potential husband , when that potential husdbund spend a difficult situation , could that girl keep being faithful ?? because if girls see the potential as the priority in a guy , so what is going to happen when that priority get weaken??

a very astute question

it is up to you to understand what she really believes about that stuff- ie commitment

 

[zavok]

just wondering did you love her

 

[andrew12]

just wondering did you love her

i think i really love her because she inspired me so much , when whe talked to me before i couldnt quit thinking in her.

 

[sportygirl]

yeah I have been a member of some christian matchmaking web sites
the first thing they want to know is your earning potential
of course they dont make it so obvious
but when they say they want a guy who is ambitious; that is what they mean

the only girls I have come across who are not interested in your income are the ones looking for a quick fling - those on the non christian dating sites

Money and earning potential shouldnt be important to a "good christian" girl, I mean yes when it comes to marriage being finiancial stable is important, but thats not the guys responsibility, not completely at least.

And to the original question, I dont know why its hard to find good christian girls. Most of my friends are about 50/50 guys and girls...I enjoy having christian friends that are guys, it gives me a different persepective on life at times. Some of hte best conversations I have had was with my small group leader who was a guy.

 

[firecracker31206]

i am looking for some one to spend my life whit the onley thing about that is i am 50 years old and its hard to find any one one here or any whrere else god bless

 

[firecracker31206]

i dont know what to say all that i am looking for the right one and that i am 50 years old

 

[Crypto]

i try to get girl cristian friends but it is difficult , because i know that we must cultivate friendships , so.. and is so easy to get friends that are girls and not cristians one example when i talk to the cristians they talk to me little , but when i talk to a Buddhist these girls inspire with me and begin to talk and talk and talk hours .and i say one word and they say 100 words so for me it is strange and funny , one day i had a buddisht girlfriend but i quit her because the bible says that God doesnt please this. and these was the girl that i liked but i quit my will and follow God´s will. i felt so much axiety when i talked to her and i explained her and she understood me and we quit talking. why is so easy fro me get unbeliever friends and not cristian friend girls??

Do you have something to offer Christian girls? Spiritual leadership, maturity, a Godly life? If not, that would probably explain why.

 

[jangel]

Do you have something to offer Christian girls? Spiritual leadership, maturity, a Godly life? If not, that would probably explain why.

Why Christian guys, do you have?

I hear brothers in our church say that when they court Christian girls they get nervous, don’t know what to say and just can’t explain how they feel but if it’s with the girl outside it’s just a piece of cake with them, I don’t know why…lol. They always say to us it’s best to have someone who has the same faith and will just look inside , but for me if you find someone outside in your church whom you really like so much then go with it but make sure to share to her what you believe in first and if you can bring her to your church then I don’t think there would be a problem with that. I would say it’s easy for a Christian guy to bring the girl inside than a Christian girl to a guy .

 

[greatkraw]

i dont know what to say all that i am looking for the right one and that i am 50 years old

girls want 3 things

good looks
good personality
good income

guys want someone who wants them

 

[DABEARS85]

according to solomon less than 1 in 1 thousand

Can you find the scripture verse for this? I find this pretty interesting, and... very very very true!

 

[ChristianGuru]

The last time I dated an unbeliever, she got so drunk, she spent the night on my couch throwing up in a trash barrel. Poor girl didn't even know where she was until about 4am. It was so much fun or how about NO. Funny part was, she didn't even drink all that much. She's asked me to marry her at least 5 times in the past 2 years and is still awaiting an engagement ring which I've never promised nor ever plan to provide lol.

 

[greatkraw]

Can you find the scripture verse for this? I find this pretty interesting, and... very very very true!

KJV
Ecclesiates7:25I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness:

26And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
27Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account:
28Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found. 29Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.

CEV
26Here is what I discovered: A bad woman is worse than death. She is a trap, reaching out with body and soul to catch you. But if you obey God, you can escape. If you don't obey, you are done for. 27With all my wisdom I have tried to find out how everything fits together, 28but so far I have not been able to. I do know there is one good man in a thousand, but never have I found a good woman. 29I did learn one thing: We were completely honest when God created us, but now we have twisted minds.