i had an unbeliever girlfriend but analize

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seetheunseen

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greatkraw said:
girls want 3 things

good looks
good personality
good income

guys want someone who wants them
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That is odd to me you would say that since i find guys are more into look than girls I have been looked down upon many time because I am not the stander of what guys like. But I am not saying wow is me God will lead the right one for me.


But I do have to say I do not think it should matter if its christian or non christian girl. I have talked to guys the same as a believer and back when I was a non, and for me it how much I talked depended on the guy weather or not I felt he was interested in me or was trying to lie to me. I do have to say this though being a believer even though I am honest I do know have topics I chose not to talk with guys anymore when I was a none believer I did not care so maybe you should look at what are you asking of these woman.
 
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godsbluesman

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zavok said:
you can say i had a similar experiences but the roles reversed you can read it on the teen fourm under broken hearts anyway maybe u can get more non christian girl friends becuase they like you for who you are and thats how they see you and maybe maybe for chrisitan girl there just looking for a potential husband and find it hard to make friends with guys... thats my guess
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I think we had a post about run-on sentances???lol
 
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godsbluesman

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firecracker31206 said:
i am looking for some one to spend my life whit the onley thing about that is i am 50 years old and its hard to find any one one here or any whrere else god bless
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Well.......Brother hear me well-If you stop looking,and it is God's plan he will lead her to you or you to her...I can back my statement up with proof! I am 44 and also thought this way...I finally resigned to being alone-but-poof! she appears out of ........somewhere and God is working in what is to come----By letting god lead,you know?
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Crypto said:
Do you have something to offer Christian girls? Spiritual leadership, maturity, a Godly life? If not, that would probably explain why.
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Don't you mean money?

All this romanticism and idealistic theorizing in this forum is making me a little nauseous (generally speaking).
 
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Ohpiddle

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All things in Satan are easy, that is why so many follow him. All things in the Lord take conviction and trust in someone you can't see. Which side of the fence are you going to fall into?? Even being on the fence is the same as making a decision, better think quick.
 
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andrew12

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Crypto said:
Do you have something to offer Christian girls? Spiritual leadership, maturity, a Godly life? If not, that would probably explain why.
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in my life i have seen that i am serious but like to have fun and i only say that i fight to be good with God and everydays i try to receive more from God . and he who receives has to give .
 
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Jenny_eLi18

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Well, I know that I’m young and I really don’t have enough experience to answer this particular question; however, I’m 18 and it’s never too late to look for love. But from what I learn from my mother and God, if you are having difficulty looking for a Christian partner, you need to specifically ask God what you want. Write it down (I’m not kidding) on a paper and every day read the bible and pray to God to listen to you prayer of finding someone special for you. Trust me, God will listen to your heart. God will lead you if you just ask for help in choosing a mate. And you can look that up in Genesis 24:14, where a servant was pleading God for a mate for his Master Isaac. God listened to his prayer and gave Isaac a new wife, Rebekah. Remember, our tongue is our strongest weapon (Proverbs 18:20-21) so use it for good use. Even now you don’t have a girlfriend, pray for whoever is going to be your future wife. I hope this sort of helped you and I wish all the best in the future.
 
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andrew12

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Jenny_eLi18 said:
Well, I know that I’m young and I really don’t have enough experience to answer this particular question; however, I’m 18 and it’s never too late to look for love. But from what I learn from my mother and God, if you are having difficulty looking for a Christian partner, you need to specifically ask God what you want. Write it down (I’m not kidding) on a paper and every day read the bible and pray to God to listen to you prayer of finding someone special for you. Trust me, God will listen to your heart. God will lead you if you just ask for help in choosing a mate. And you can look that up in Genesis 24:14, where a servant was pleading God for a mate for his Master Isaac. God listened to his prayer and gave Isaac a new wife, Rebekah. Remember, our tongue is our strongest weapon (Proverbs 18:20-21) so use it for good use. Even now you don’t have a girlfriend, pray for whoever is going to be your future wife. I hope this sort of helped you and I wish all the best in the future.
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i like this advice and some more because God really led abraham´s servant to find isaac´s wife.
 
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andrew12

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seetheunseen said:
That is odd to me you would say that since i find guys are more into look than girls I have been looked down upon many time because I am not the stander of what guys like. But I am not saying wow is me God will lead the right one for me.


But I do have to say I do not think it should matter if its christian or non christian girl. I have talked to guys the same as a believer and back when I was a non, and for me it how much I talked depended on the guy weather or not I felt he was interested in me or was trying to lie to me. I do have to say this though being a believer even though I am honest I do know have topics I chose not to talk with guys anymore when I was a none believer I did not care so maybe you should look at what are you asking of these woman.
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but the bible says that we must marry and look for a christian person.
 
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andrew12

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godsbluesman said:
Well.......Brother hear me well-If you stop looking,and it is God's plan he will lead her to you or you to her...I can back my statement up with proof! I am 44 and also thought this way...I finally resigned to being alone-but-poof! she appears out of ........somewhere and God is working in what is to come----By letting god lead,you know?
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i always think that things doesnt come alone , i listened a pastor saying that if a person waits and does not go to look for his or her mate it is similar to say that we must wait at home that God sends us a good job. i think if we dont go to look for the job we are not going to receive it from heaven.
or what do you think??
 
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