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This will make me sound very bad , but growing up I always saw these girls homes for troubled teen girls ran by preachers and their wives and I prayed that God would not let me fall for a man in that ministry. I've seen so many instances where the man leaves his wife for one of the clingy emotional troubled teen girls.... it's a sad, sick situation, and I don't think it's something I could do.
I've seen that situation as well. 
It also applies to everyone including women, whether married or not if one of the parties is married, and also outside of ministry. Marriage is something you need to protect, especially guard it with caution continually for such situation where you are alone with someone opposite sex for whatever reason, may it be counseling as mentioned and even something like having a harmless lunch with a coworker alone if one of you is married. Providing counseling is especially dangerous, whether in ministry or at a workplace, especially from men's perspective because it gives this false sense of 'being a hero, rescuing this helpless woman who came to you for help' which can really go to our head.