I hear ya everyone's "experience" can be different when coming to believe in God/Jesus and the bible,but well actually some like atheists choose to believe whatever but actually to some degree you have to "choose" some of what you believe,like for instant my churches have primarily been Baptist so one could assume that I believe all their beliefs like...women must where dresses,or go to church or end up in hell,but I don't,now do I think these can be good things to do,yes,but I don't think it should be a main focus necessarily,like in my case just about a year or so ago I couldn't go to my church anymore.(no ride to get there anymore)
I actually through out that time "felt more spirit filled" than when I was at my church,and wore myself out greeting people,speaking on scripture on here,helping people understand Salvation and Baptism,and itin wasn't from the mere tradition of "going to church" it was from "learning God's word" accepting Salvation and giving my life over to God/Jesus.
For some,things are different they have to go to church or do something that makes them feel of value in order to be able to function,we have our different perspectives and beliefs but so long as we do right by God/Jesus and endure through this wicked world we shall receive what we have awaiting us.