Is there a chat site that isn't reformed like this one is?

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This is probably the best Christian chat site there is :) I only say "probably" because I have not been on them all, not even close :D But I have visited others, and they were choked with ads that interrupted the flow of conversation. If you come to recognize people that you do not want to interact with, or do not want to read what they have to say, for whatever reason, then you can either overlook their posts, or put them on ignore :)
 
I am tired of seeing ppl bullied. It's not right and what does an unsaved person learn here? That they have no choice, no hope of salvation unless they are chosen.

That's not a message of hope.
 
I was reading some research about bullies, just as an aside, not that it applies here,

but I did find it very interesting,

historically psychologists believed that bullies had low self-esteem and were insecure and bullied to puff themselves up.

However new studies have shown that bullies actually are too over empowered and have a very high sense of self above others and therefore feel they can bully others because they are better than others.

Anyway please stay.:)


I would really like to find one, There are so many Calvinist bullies here.
 
I am tired of seeing ppl bullied. It's not right and what does an unsaved person learn here? That they have no choice, no hope of salvation unless they are chosen.

That's not a message of hope.
An unsaved person learns that God has purposed to save a multitude of sinners...In Jesus.
they can learn that sinners are lost, and unless they are brought to a place of repentance an faith they will perish
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[FONT=&quot]21 Then said Jesus again unto them, I go my way, and ye shall seek me, and shall die in your sins: whither I go, ye cannot come.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]22 Then said the Jews, Will he kill himself? because he saith, Whither I go, ye cannot come.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]23 And he said unto them, Ye are from beneath; I am from above: ye are of this world; I am not of this world.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.[/FONT]
 
It does weigh one down and sadly it is very hard not to get pulled into the behaviour, that is what I find the most challenging.

I agree it is not a message of hope:(




I am tired of seeing ppl bullied. It's not right and what does an unsaved person learn here? That they have no choice, no hope of salvation unless they are chosen.

That's not a message of hope.
 
It does weigh one down and sadly it is very hard not to get pulled into the behaviour, that is what I find the most challenging.

I agree it is not a message of hope:(

Do you believe this is a message of hope?
43 Why do ye not understand my speech? even because ye cannot hear my word.
44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
45 And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
46 Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me?
47 He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.

It was spoken by the Lord Jesus to religious people...
 
I would really like to find one, There are so many Calvinist bullies here.

I've been on 12-15 others, and this is the best. I just kind of ignore them, and they ignore me. We won't change each other's minds... and it doesn't make a bit of difference anyway.
 
I would really like to find one, There are so many Calvinist bullies here.
Depends on what "you mean" there is only one active Christian Chat style website I know of that is active and unlike here has apologetics and things of that nature,I simply typed in "Christian forums" and found multiple sites,wouldn't want you to leave here but yes there are a fare few other sites that are somewhat active that may be easier for you to discuss in.
 
I was reading some research about bullies, just as an aside, not that it applies here,

but I did find it very interesting,

historically psychologists believed that bullies had low self-esteem and were insecure and bullied to puff themselves up.

However new studies have shown that bullies actually are too over empowered and have a very high sense of self above others and therefore feel they can bully others because they are better than others.

Anyway please stay.:)

I think both the lows and highs can be bullies.
 
Different subject, I know.... But, you poor little people who think people who disagree with you are bullying you, had better wake up and grow up. Otherwise, you are going to have a long miserable life to live.
 
I hope you won't leave! I simply steer clear of the forums in here that stress me out. That pretty much solves the problem. Don't be discouraged! :)