You're in serious danger here....
Quickly, you need to have an opinion that contradicts a man, or you're legalist bait. They don't like women who talk back, so if you just have a difference of opinion you should be safe.
I got my ears pierced when I was 9 (and my Mom got hers done along with me) and now my Mom always wears earrings but I never do.
When my Mom was 50, she got a tattoo (this is my 95-lb., never-misses-church, only-heard-her-swear-twice-in-my-life-and-that-was-the-"d"-word mother), but I didn't. It's a sad thing that your mom is cooler and more "hip" than you are.
I love making bracelets and a few other jewelry pieces but I never wear them myself, I always give them away.
I only wear enough makeup to cover up a few spots on my face I'm self-conscious about and give my lips a little color. Without that, even my own mother asks if I have the flu. People always comment to me that they think I don't wear any makeup at all and a few women have "helpfully" suggested that I "could use a little" to look better and catch a man, lol.
However, just in case (as a safeguard against attracting legalists), I have enough attitude than a woman who wears more gold than Mr. T AND enough makeup to compete with Tammy Faye Baker.
Whew. For minute, ServantStrike had me seriously worried.
I'm pretty sure I could make a legalist cry... and repeatedly bang his head against a wall. (And I suppose it cements my "Go-Directly-To-Hell Status" that I'm proud of that fact.)
When I was a kid, I started reading the Bible JUST SO THAT I'd have some sort of ammunition with which to counter the legalists at my church, and when I fall into a lapse, it's still a big part of my motivation.
One of my siblings once told me that if it wasn't for the sake of spite, I'd never be motivated to do anything.