Men think, women think this. Women think, men think that.

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Jewel5712 said:
Interesting ;). Didnt like 50 shades of gray..
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I investigated it out of curiosity. I thought it was poorly written and weak. That only lead me to more strongly conclude that it was the content and characters that sparked such a response. Men reported their frigid wives came to life in the bedroom like never before.
 
Hungry said:
I investigated it out of curiosity. I thought it was poorly written and weak. That only lead me to more strongly conclude that it was the content and characters that sparked such a response. Men reported their frigid wives came to life in the bedroom like never before.
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i fell asleep during the film. I also read the 100 first pages of the book. The build up in the beginning was OK, but then it just became filth.
 
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Hungry said:
Most women still possess the calling to motherhood. Whereas before weak genes were discontinued because of disease and the elements, society has intervened to the detriment of our species. We have no enemies, but ourselves, food is often plentiful and medicine prolongs weak genetic stock. Money is a false strength. One can acquire this “power” and fortify an otherwise poor genetic specimen. Besides, oversexualization contributes to uncontrollable population growth.
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Um...well..if youve been WITHOUT food or money for prolonged periods of time..your opinion might change..go to some 3rd world countries..;)
 
Hungry said:
I think the largest hurdle in understanding the sexes is knowledge, primarily pseudo knowledge. We are taught it is complicated, it’s not! God designed our sexuality like the other mammals. Men are designed for population increase and females are designed for quality increase. Men display their genetic giftedness and women select the best attributes to pass on. It’s the same all over the animal kingdom. I’m not going to go into great detail but that’s how we are designed. Alpha males are generally selected based on survival qualities, and dominance. Just consider the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey”. Stereotypical alpha. The rest of relationship is based on needs being met. Pleasure releases serotonin and dopamine, pleasure and addiction neurotransmitters. We get addicted to eachother.

As far as empathy is concerned look up mirror neurons. We are designed to learn and live in community because of this. Our brains react in synch with others based on observing them. That’s why we wince when somebody gets hurt, cry when somebody is sad, and smile when somebody smiles. It’s how kids learn mostly. Scientists have concluded this response is stronger from a subordinate to an authority and weak or nonexistent in reverse. In short, how better you think you are above others dictates your empathy. Also explaining how such atrocities are performed to enemies without remorse.

We think we are so complex but most people are predictable based on programming from youth, neurology and survival needs (especially need for acceptance). The social media, “like” button is as addictive as sex and sugar at the most primal level.
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Btw...ask any woman whos been raped about the whole alpha male thing n 50 shades...
 
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Hungry said:
I investigated it out of curiosity. I thought it was poorly written and weak. That only lead me to more strongly conclude that it was the content and characters that sparked such a response. Men reported their frigid wives came to life in the bedroom like never before.
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The whole film wasnt bout the dominance of sex but the guy had underlying issues with his mother etc hence his need and perversion to explore and inflict his issues on others..especialli in the 1st movie..a lot of kids that had sexual issues when younger often manifest these traits as older adults but yes..i thought you had some valid points in your original reply over all
 
cinder said:
Oh and gentlemen it is true: Women think that men should be able to read their minds.
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Yeh I fell foul of that.

One day my wife was stood in front of the mirror.
She asked me "Does this dress make my bum look big?

I said "No it's the cake and chocolate you eat that does that"

I soon saw the error of my ways.
3 days later I could see out of my left eye and two days later I could see out of my right eye.

If only she had told me the answer required before my response
 
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BillG said:
Yeh I fell foul of that.

One day my wife was stood in front of the mirror.
She asked me "Does this dress make my bum look big?

I said "No it's the cake and chocolate you eat that does that"

I soon saw the error of my ways.
3 days later I could see out of my left eye and two days later I could see out of my right eye.

If only she had told me the answer required before my response
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Do women really ask them sort of questions?
 
Faith-n-Christ said:
I seen your humor, thanks.😏
I have never asked such a question, nor would I. My brain just don't think that way. 😁 thank goodness.
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Maybe because it's a trick question like 'what would you change about me if you could. or is [insert movie star name here] is prettier than me. Yeah. all the time.
 
I think.....

Too much thinking for a poor woman's head

So if a man thinks I am thinking about what he thinks now, he is mistaken.

Give me a head and do the thinking for me 😋
 
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