I'm in a relationship now!

[WineRose]

I'm truly not saying this to be at all hurtful, but since Joe says he deleted his account, I'll say it. I think Joe is on the spectrum. Those of you who know someone who is on the autistic spectrum know what I'm talking about. I have a very high functioning nephew that is on the spectrum, that was diagnosed with a form of Aspergers. I feel worse for the high functioning because they see other people attaining what they desire, a spouse, good job, house, kids, etc... and just can't understand why they don't have those things. This makes them highly susceptible to scams and frauds. Many also have heightened obsessive tendencies. It is especially sad when they have never been diagnosed or treated.

When Joe 1st joined, for a long while, I would click on the latest activity button and the screen would be filled with posts from him on threads like "4 words not say on a date". And many, almost nonsensical, other posts.

He also had a fairly unhealthy fixation with a 15 yr old girl. It amazed me that he didn't think that inappropriate. I say all this so that hopefully we can realize, and approach these individuals in a more loving, yet firm manner.

Ehem. I am 16 now.

Also, I am on the spectrum too (although barely now), and I, too, post nonsensical stuff on that same thread, lol. But...so does a couple of people here who are not on the spectrum, or at least I think they're not.

However, I'll just say that not all of us spectrum people are like this, especially those who are barely even on it, like me. I know that you never directly said otherwise and what you said is quite true for those further into the spectrum, but I just wanted to mention this to everyone else who reads this post.

 

[7seasrekeyed]

Tommy needs a better bedside manner dispite his experience..tact goes a LONG way in ANY profession or relationship..lol (im still learning n just for $19.99 i can get the NEXT book) lol

well sometimes you have to take people where they are

that goes both ways

I have been called mean round these parts and a few other things because I am sometimes blunt

you get tired of the stuff bulls do inna field, yah know?

 

[Jewel5712]

well sometimes you have to take people where they are

that goes both ways

I have been called mean round these parts and a few other things because I am sometimes blunt

you get tired of the stuff bulls do inna field, yah know?

Lol..good..you n me can start a support group..lol im cold hearted unfeeling b.....nice to meet you..lol

 

[Jewel5712]

@blue_ladybug ..wanna join our support group blue? Lol

 

[Jewel5712]

Ya all going or watching church tomorrow?

 

[G00WZ]

If I knew Joe in real life, I'd either go to social services to have them investigate and have a court appoint a guardian over him, or I would beat him. One or the other.

You are better than this.
So far i have watched you call guy a troll and threaten to "beat" him twice while encouraging others to do violence.
Not saying that i am surprised or disappointed because i expect people to do what they do. It would be wise to be mindful of the things you say though.

 

[Jewel5712]

You are better than this.
So far i have watched you call guy a troll and threaten to "beat" him twice while encouraging others to do violence.
Not saying that i am surprised or disappointed because i expect people to do what they do. It would be wise to be mindful of the things you say though.

Tommy should join mine n 7seas support group..lol..im the invisable woman simce he cant 'see" me (probably ignored) lol