"Man Up": How "Christians" Are Abandoning Single Men

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You really need to visit a church like mine. Maybe not my church, as I have no idea how much the commute would cost, but definitely some kind of church like mine. I have never even heard of the things your church is claiming.
Oh you mean what my church is claiming? It's all over the place. But I live in a liberal utopia, so there is that. The entire Midwest is invested with liberal slime.
 
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Most Boomers ARE NOT retired. They DID start the ALL YOUNG PEOPLE ONLY must work Sunday. And they started the working on holiday fiasco.

Own up to it.
You're blaming an entire generation just because of their age. Look at when businesses started making sunday business hours a common thing. Don't just blame an entire generation of people. That simply makes you a hater.

Also, there is no business that says ONLY YOUNG PEOPLE must work Sundays. That's baloney and you know it. Its the young people working sundays because most of the boomers are retired! You must have some grudge against a boss that's a boomer or something.
 
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In any case, you say you are working 64 hours a week. Where does that leave time for a relationship? You are in no position to start a relationship. Especially if you are a stressed out, bitter person.
 
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NO KIDDING Ruth doesn't exist; a feminine woman with great work ethic. Single Christian women? Where they at? You must mean "Christian" women; those are abundant, for sure.

Wrong. Millennial is a distinct generation. A small one too. One that gets continually mistaken for Gen Z. Lol, there is NOTHING behind the "porn and video games" LIE. I have never looked at porn in my life, not have pleasured myself. Guess what pal? STILL a "healthy" interest in sex of NONE ...

Single Christian men are not being denigrated??? LOL okay dude ... you denigrated me towards the end of your post using the very words listed.

They didn't regret their decision, poor choice of words on my part. You can't have regrets being part of Generation Do-No-Wrong ... but you did wait as a whole until your 40s ... which is why most Millennials have Boomers for parents ... parents who are dying YOUNG ... annnnnndddd you married 3 times ... just ... LOL.

Misread what I said. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is CRAP first of all. Secondly, I clearly said beauty wasn't enough to get the average masculine man to "pursue", obviously hinting at her heart.

Dude, your experience comes from a pathetically weak generation of beta males, obsessed with sex and the Pet Rock ... OF COURSE you saw "men" who wanted friendship last. You know the negative effects that has had on your daughters?! I don't know a single woman that doesn't believe that love comes BEFORE committing to a relationships. Now it's sex/physicality first, THEN feelings, THEN relationship, THEN "love", and then maybe friendship if they are lucky. Gee, I wonder why that recipe fails ...

... I don't look; I am MALE. Do you not get what that means??? Did you not read where I listed that I go MONTHS without ever SEEING a woman??? Come on Boomer, you're in the suburbs. Fess up.

Yes, it is a shame. 2 STEM degrees I am not using. Going for a 3rd because there's no opportunity. It would be nice if your generation would stop requiring unpaid internship experience and stop low-balling starting pay at $10 an hour after preaching college for our entire lives ...

Why would I go to a laundromat when I have my own washing machine, as do most non-criminals???

"There are plenty of places to meet Christian women outside of church." And yet, NOBODY has been able to name a single place ... fancy that! You know damn well that a real Christian of appropriate age agreeing with a man to save themselves for marriage is FAR too few in number.

I'm not seeking advice; I'm showing quite obviously how ridiculous it is for people to PREACH to men to "pursue" women, or to condemn them to Hellfire ... without being able to give a single place to where all these women are supposedly at! At present, the only woman I have seen in 2.5 months is my mother, This is quite common for, you know, WORKING adults on night shifts ...

You didn't work those hours dude. You're a liar. And even if you did, they weren't as common and as universally mandated as they are now; if those hours were worked, it was temporary. Not permanent.

No. The CHILD has yet to experience life; being referred to as a "homosexual" and being shamed to by so-called "Christians" is more than enough reason to "complain".

Remember how you said how single men are not being denigrated? Notice how you called me "bitter"?

Jerk.
 
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You're blaming an entire generation just because of their age. Look at when businesses started making sunday business hours a common thing. Don't just blame an entire generation of people. That simply makes you a hater.

Also, there is no business that says ONLY YOUNG PEOPLE must work Sundays. That's baloney and you know it. Its the young people working sundays because most of the boomers are retired! You must have some grudge against a boss that's a boomer or something.
LOL you're so pathetic. What sort of love affair do you have for this monstrous, and evil generation? You have a sugar granny???
 
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cops are manly and masculine, and they are the biggest competition, if only we can rid the world of consequence

and cops think they are "holy and above all", such self-righteousness

if you fail to "bounce your eyes", then, blitzkrieg atomic consequence can happen

I doubt that the "blood of consequence" should be worshiped

and how do policemen keep their eyes pure in the first place?

and I hope manliness isn't graded by who can kill the most FBI agents, to show those cops who's powerful, because power, power, power, power, power



oh, and cops love to use phrases like "so you think your a tough guy huh"

and, if you show that you are not tough, they'll consider the fear as if you've done something wrong,

this isn't "might makes right", man up thing? then what is it?
 
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In any case, you say you are working 64 hours a week. Where does that leave time for a relationship? You are in no position to start a relationship. Especially if you are a stressed out, bitter person.
MULTIPLE JOBS you incompetent idiot. And NO KIDDING it leaves no time for a relationship! Guess what douche? MOST Millennials work just as much. Clearly I have to walk you by the hand ... that means, derrrr, that they have no time either, derrr.

"Bitter". There's that denigrating language again!

Because certainly, you'd be fine with everyone believing you are "homosexual" because you are highly masculine ...

WHY do you FAKE CHRISTIANS have such a PROBLEM with single men??? Your HATRED is REALLY unbecoming ...
 
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theanointedsinner

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WHY do you FAKE CHRISTIANS have such a PROBLEM with single men??? Your HATRED is REALLY unbecoming ...

I HATE because, I'll tell you what,

we'd be accused of having impure motives, oh really, since who died made you king, huh, who made you judge, oh you like that big piece of wood in the eye that grows like pinocchio's nose, and who made that judge a mind reader all the sudden, thinking i have impure motive, want me to show you my true colors, how about I smear it on the judge's face?

want a fight? let's take this outside
yes, let's get a piece of each other

let's explore the worst of who we are, then we will be sincere, and we will know what sincerity is, what sincerity is like, and be consumed by ultimate sincerity, then God will be pleased with our everlasting sincerity


oh, I'm a misogynist? da*n right I am, and I do own "Misogyny central", how do you like that? you like hearing that, huh!
 
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I HATE because, I'll tell you what,

we'd be accused of having impure motives, oh really, since who died made you king, huh, who made you judge, oh you like that big piece of wood in the eye that grows like pinocchio's nose, and who made that judge a mind reader all the sudden, thinking i have impure motive, want me to show you my true colors, how about I smear it on the judge's face?

want a fight? let's take this outside
yes, let's get a piece of each other

let's explore the worst of who we are, then we will be sincere, and we will know what sincerity is, what sincerity is like, and be consumed by ultimate sincerity, then God will be pleased with our everlasting sincerity
"And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit." - Ephesians 5:18
 

Dino246

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MULTIPLE JOBS you incompetent idiot. And NO KIDDING it leaves no time for a relationship! Guess what douche? MOST Millennials work just as much. Clearly I have to walk you by the hand ... that means, derrrr, that they have no time either, derrr.

"Bitter". There's that denigrating language again!

Because certainly, you'd be fine with everyone believing you are "homosexual" because you are highly masculine ...

WHY do you FAKE CHRISTIANS have such a PROBLEM with single men??? Your HATRED is REALLY unbecoming ...
What does that say about your hatred?

Again, take your problems, complaints and concerns to Jesus. Your anger will only become destructive if you keep handling it this way.
 
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What does that say about your hatred?

Again, take your problems, complaints and concerns to Jesus. Your anger will only become destructive if you keep handling it this way.
HAHAHAHAHA. Classic. You attack, you cast the first stone. And then try to take the moral high ground when your victim has the strength to fight back harder.

Typical.

Are you angry that nobody bought into your #FakeBombHoax yesterday???
 

Dino246

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HAHAHAHAHA. Classic. You attack, you cast the first stone. And then try to take the moral high ground when your victim has the strength to fight back harder.

Typical.

Are you angry that nobody bought into your #FakeBombHoax yesterday???
Yawn....

You won't be here long. Hope you find the peace you so badly need. His Name is Jesus.
 
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Yawn....

You won't be here long. Hope you find the peace you so badly need. His Name is Jesus.
You don't believe in Jesus. You clearly believe in the other guy. It's not a sin for men to be single. Cry about it.
 

JesusLives

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Thank you.

Have you noticed here though too that there is more focus on the false teachings of man pursuing women … and NO suggestions of where to actually MEET a woman???

It's because False Teachers don't have any answers.

It's my understanding that men and women are everywhere... When I go out to the store I see both sexes there. I had a gentleman approach me as I was looking at bananas he paid me a compliment and asked if I would like to meet him and have dinner. We had a nice date a few days later.

I was approached by a gentleman at the gas station he was in need as he had forgotten his wallet and was running on fumes he asked if he could get a few dollars for some gas which I gave him so he could get back home and get his wallet to fill the car.

My point is you aren't at your job all the time and you do see women when you are out and about in normal everyday interactions. There are women at grocery stores, at your church, at the gas station, all you have to do is smile be friendly and introduce yourself you never know you might even get the chance to ask a woman if she would like to go for a cup of coffee.
 

Lynx

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anyone got any popcorn?
Nope, but I have two half-gallon jars of (very lightly) salted cashews. I also have chocolate truffle cheesecake or I could make pimento cheese sandwiches... with HOMEMADE pimento cheese on homemade sourdough bread.
 

Lynx

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Oh you mean what my church is claiming? It's all over the place. But I live in a liberal utopia, so there is that. The entire Midwest is invested with liberal slime.
Ah, liberal-land. I would DEFINITELY move to somewhere else. Maybe not Tennessee if that's not your bag, but somewhere very thoroughly un-there.
 

JesusLives

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Why are you having to work two jobs?

Just for your info Boomer run from 1946 - 1964 add 65 years and that does give you a good portion of boomers being in the retirement period and heading there quickly... Now if you wanted to be ticked because you are having to pay our Social Security then please go for that but as far as being responsible for your working issues that's all you. You decided to work where you do and you decide everyday to go back there.

If you are that unhappy with your jobs then change them you have two degrees make them work for you. As you are the person who is in control of your destiny and you are the only one who controls your happiness. Boomers aren't in control of your life and your choices... you are.

As for not finding a woman that's on you too. It's as simple as introducing yourself to a lady and asking her out. Unless you hide under a rock you see women everyday even if it is in your car on the way to work. If you stop and get gas look around you there are women there. If you buy groceries, look around yes, there are women. If you do laundry they are usually at the laundry mat too.

Start talking to women and be friendly as we usually respond to friendly types. You are in charge of your life and all you need to do is take control.
 
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It's my understanding that men and women are everywhere... When I go out to the store I see both sexes there. I had a gentleman approach me as I was looking at bananas he paid me a compliment and asked if I would like to meet him and have dinner. We had a nice date a few days later.

I was approached by a gentleman at the gas station he was in need as he had forgotten his wallet and was running on fumes he asked if he could get a few dollars for some gas which I gave him so he could get back home and get his wallet to fill the car.

My point is you aren't at your job all the time and you do see women when you are out and about in normal everyday interactions. There are women at grocery stores, at your church, at the gas station, all you have to do is smile be friendly and introduce yourself you never know you might even get the chance to ask a woman if she would like to go for a cup of coffee.
LOL. The serendipitous movie cliche of encountering someone in the grocery store does not happen.

I am at work 64 hours a week, between 2 jobs. 3 out of 7 days of the week, a drive for 2 hours. 70 hours.

That's 41.66% of my average week devoted strictly to work, with nary a woman in site. Add another 5.5 hours a week for classroom sessions, dominated by GEN Z men ... (no, I WILL NOT engage in an age gap "relationship" like some PERVERT).

77.5 hours. No woman in site.

4 hours a week in the gym ... in an empty gym. 79.5 hours. Wow, we are at 47.35% right there! We haven't even included sleep! I don't get to sleep much, so that's 30.5 hours right there.

110 hours now. Wow. 65.47% of my week, no women in site. Hmmm.

I certainly don't fill up any of that remaining time studying, oh no! Pfft.

On Tuesday's, I like to go to to 10pm showings at the movies to rejuvenate after the end of a long week. Saw Halloween (2018) this past Tuesday. It sucked! I was also the only person in the theater ... I am always the only person in the theater.

You are absolutely WRONG.

Further, these men you list are not "gentlemen". A gentlement dates women he already knows; not some random stranger buying bananas or pumping gas ...