Cuddle Time

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Do you like to cuddle?

  • I am a WOMAN and I DON'T like to cuddle.

    Votes: 2 5.9%

  • I am a WOMAN and I DO like to cuddle.

    Votes: 11 32.4%

  • I am a MAN and I DON'T like to cuddle.

    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • I am a MAN and I DO like to cuddle.

    Votes: 16 47.1%

  • I DON'T know what cuddling is.

    Votes: 2 5.9%

  • I would like to cuddle but I DON'T know how.

    Votes: 2 5.9%
  • Total voters
    34
You add Earl Grey to anything it suddenly becomes Classy.

To think these people didn't know that.
 
My brain is still stuck on the vision of Nuke sippin Earl Grey from a dematasse cup with his pinkie out...
 
Nuke, are any of these you?

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I like to cuddle but I wasn't always a christian. Cuddling always tends to lead to other things. I don't think I could cuddle and be good too.
 
zeroturbulence said:
I like to cuddle but I wasn't always a christian. Cuddling always tends to lead to other things. I don't think I could cuddle and be good too.
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I actually had a conversation about this with my cousin. We were discussing tbecause of the different views on cuddling it is important to discuss boundaries with your bf/gf.

Personally I view cuddling as a way you can express physical affection, but not necessarily sexual affection. But if my hypothetical boyfrined thought differently then we probably couldnt get all snuggled up without any problems.
 
thimsrebma said:
I actually had a conversation about this with my cousin. We were discussing tbecause of the different views on cuddling it is important to discuss boundaries with your bf/gf.

Personally I view cuddling as a way you can express physical affection, but not necessarily sexual affection. But if my hypothetical boyfrined thought differently then we probably couldnt get all snuggled up without any problems.
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Yes, boundaries are very important. We had that too before we married, though one can still feel a bit easier tempted with all those feelings in the air. But we both still made it very fine keeping the most necessary boundaries.

Many says that it is often the man who feels a lot more tempted to try crossing the line at times and the woman needs putting the line for him. But in our relationship; It was my boyfriend(my now husband)that helped me most with keeping to the lines we had set. Of course it was both helping each others. But I clearly remember sometimes I could feel a lot more tempted, and then he did it totally different, and this also made me hold it back and calm down more as well.

I agree that cuddling is also expressed through physical affection and not always being sexual affection. And yes, if it often get's a bit too much lead towards sinning, then one should make it even more stricter for both's sake in a relationship.
 
As it stands, 10 men like to cuddle and 10 women like to cuddle. I think its time for some match making.
 
thimsrebma said:
I actually had a conversation about this with my cousin. We were discussing tbecause of the different views on cuddling it is important to discuss boundaries with your bf/gf.

Personally I view cuddling as a way you can express physical affection, but not necessarily sexual affection. But if my hypothetical boyfrined thought differently then we probably couldnt get all snuggled up without any problems.
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For me, respecting cuddling boundaries would be like trying not to sneeze - not impossible, but takes every ounce of effort to stop it.
 
thimsrebma said:
As it stands, 10 men like to cuddle and 10 women like to cuddle. I think its time for some match making.
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Then you have to cutt off my voting, and it will become 9 women likes to cuddle! ;)

'Cause I am already Married! :) Lol!
 
Well, first of all is only named "Do You Like To Cuddle?" ;) I didn't see that Married People can't join voting in this poll! :D
 
cuddling is much like anything else in a marriage, like even if one doesnt like it as much as the other, we need to do things for other because its quality time with one another, and cherish these things, because we never know when things change, and you might not be able to do so, if people lived more in the sense of submitting to one another in love, then a guy shouldnt have a problem cuddling because he wants to make her happy, and vice versa, for lack of a better chapter or book in the bible to support this, the only thing coming to my mind at the moment is 1 corinthians 7, hopefully i make some sense haha, watched a sermon by pastor Mark Driscoll, and he was explaining this chapter that a man and woman are "masters" of one another, that is to say, if the lady wants to snuggle, men your snuggling :P, and so forth
 
BellaFlor said:
Well, first of all is only named "Do You Like To Cuddle?" ;) I didn't see that Married People can't join voting in this poll! :D
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No I didnt mention it because I figured people would know because it is in the SINGLES forum.:rolleyes:
 
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