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Well, as a guy, I think if a woman asked if she could cook dinner for me. Its borderline but, I think it all depends on how much heads up and forethought go into it.
And as for asking people out. Sometimes, I've asked people out to dinner, Mini-golf, a movie followed by Dairy Queen and they don't think its a date. I like being friends first ideally but, its easier to go at it cold. If you have an established friendship and you wind up giving this person gifts, telling them how amazing they are and taking them everywhere, You (I) might just fall into the Brother (sister) box.
"Oh you got me flowers!
You're just like the brother I never had"
So I have this maneuver that I like to use to get out of the box, which is that I take 2 weeks, disappear, get a haircut and then show up as if I had an epiphany. If that doesn't work then.... its pretty much a slimy Well.
And as for asking people out. Sometimes, I've asked people out to dinner, Mini-golf, a movie followed by Dairy Queen and they don't think its a date. I like being friends first ideally but, its easier to go at it cold. If you have an established friendship and you wind up giving this person gifts, telling them how amazing they are and taking them everywhere, You (I) might just fall into the Brother (sister) box.
"Oh you got me flowers!
You're just like the brother I never had" So I have this maneuver that I like to use to get out of the box, which is that I take 2 weeks, disappear, get a haircut and then show up as if I had an epiphany. If that doesn't work then.... its pretty much a slimy Well.
(I started to type this in German, but thought that might be rude to the other posters J )
i think he should stick with the hair cut.. apparently it does something to the ladies after he gets one
Most girls don't care which way my hair is pointing, just as long as it changes seasonally.
To Rissa's Little Mermaid allusion. Eric almost kissed her without the voice. Frankly, he was projecting so much that he probably would have kissed any girl that never said anything.
Which brings me to another thread possibility. What do girls see in guys with no personality? You know, the ones that just sit there and "exist." I have a theory...
There is a girl that I know and she is a Total type A personality. She only dates submissive quiet Beta guys and all these guys are exactly the same with her. She molds and makes them her way with her dominating type A personality. So, I asked her about it one day (faux pas, I know) but she said I had it wrong and that they were the strong silent type. Which brings me back to the projecting thing. Do we sometimes make people the people we want to see ourselves with?
Is this a topic for another thread?
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Good to see your move went okay and you're safe
And as of 30 minutes ago, my new DSL line is DSL-ing quite well. I only lasted 15 minutes on dial-up before I realized it wasn't gonna happen.