its just a matter of women communicate more indirectly. men communicate directly. when 2 men have a problem with each other, what happens? they get in each others face. direct confrontation. when 2 women have a problem they're more likely to talk about each other behind their backs & give dirty looks. it is natural inborn way the genders are made. and if a woman wants to do well in a relationship with a man she will learn to say what she really wants & feels & not drop hints & expect the man to figure it out. its much easier for a woman to learn to speak up than for a man to learn subtle signals. its not that one is better than the other, just part of our God given differences within each gender.