Sex before marriage follow up. Practical reasons why I dont fornicate

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thimsrebma

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So basically... let's say Osama bin Laden repented of ALL the terrorist attacks he took part in and 5 minutes later got hit by a bus. That's it? God forgot it all? Bada bing, bada boom?

On a side note, how can God forget the terrorist attacks repented of when the thousands of families of the victims pray for them every day? So God is gonna forget something that is mentioned in prayer daily? If so, is He even hearing the prayers? It just doesn't make sense.
Ooooookaaaaaaay.... Most terrorists will never accept Jeusus as their Lord and Savior. But if one does and repents for his sins he will be forgiven just as anyone else who has truely repented and accepted Christ in their life.

The people who are praying, what are they praying for? Most are praying for healing of some sort, emotional or phisical maybe they are still mourning. God gives them comfort. If they are praying for something bad to happen to the terrorist then they are praying amiss. We are to pray for our enemies, but not for them to recieve something bad but for them to come to Christ as we have.
 
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GreenNnice

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#82
Ranshagreencloverteamguy, msamber put it perfectly, as God will not forget unless you repent and go and sin no more. :)

Thanks for that justification , msamber . :)
 
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RanShaTo84

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#83
Ranshagreencloverteamguy, msamber put it perfectly, as God will not forget unless you repent and go and sin no more. :)

Thanks for that justification , msamber . :)
LOL @ 'ranshagreencloverteamguy'

IDK, it still didn't make sense to me her response... so if I'm praying to God 'please Father, do not allow more terrorist attacks like that to occur' but God had 'already forgotten and forgiven them' how would He know what I'm referring to? LOL
 
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thimsrebma

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#84
LOL @ 'ranshagreencloverteamguy'

IDK, it still didn't make sense to me her response... so if I'm praying to God 'please Father, do not allow more terrorist attacks like that to occur' but God had 'already forgotten and forgiven them' how would He know what I'm referring to? LOL
God forgives your sin. As in that you did it, not that an event has never happened. So its like to him you never did it not that it never occured. The event has happend but there is no perpetrator, once their is repentance.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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#85
Good thing I don't believe in God then. Because that kind of thinking is archaic and offensive. Your God is sexist apparently.

I just cant understand why she was banned!!!!!!!!!!!

:rolleyes:
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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#86
Practical reason i dont fornicate

I dont want no ones icky germs on me.
 
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a practical reason im not fronicating...I dont want to contract K.I.D.S.

on the other hand its difficult for me. I have fooled around before, a lot. And there are certain things I liked and certain things i didnt. Is it bad to want to know which category a future wife would fall into? Though thats why i ask questions now.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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a practical reason im not fronicating...I dont want to contract K.I.D.S.

on the other hand its difficult for me. I have fooled around before, a lot. And there are certain things I liked and certain things i didnt. Is it bad to want to know which category a future wife would fall into? Though thats why i ask questions now.

hopefully she wouldnt fall into the category of things you dont like... :rolleyes:
 
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wolfywolfs

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i lost my v when i was 19 she was a girl from universty meet her at a club back to hers and the magic happened and it was bad because first time wasnt expirenced do you know how hard it is to put on a condom in the dark under the influence of alcohol very hard :p. then i meet another girl from uni and we became friends with benifits both stressed from work didnt really have the time to go out to clubs or have a real break so we had sex to get rid of stress and it was fun all the different things we tried made uni life survivable again (second year on my course is a soul killer) then we actully dated and became a couple which lasted a few months then she dumped me for reason unknown heart broken etc. now i have another friends with benifits and thankfully its not going down the same path as the last one i decided a romantic relationship with some1 while at uni not a wise thing. plus this friends with benifits is better she loves video games i now have some i can play coop games with
 
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GreenNnice

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Wolf, you are being transparent, that's great. God loves you no matter what but continuing a promiscuous lifestyle, if you look at scripture, leads to a future life of unimaginable horror.
I want you to do something right now, and, let me first say I am not judging you in any way, shape, or form. God says in scripture: why are you looking at the spec in your brother's eye (brother in Christ) when you have a plank in your own eye.
That verse is from four Gospels, like Matthew.

Stop, drop, pray, realize the power of God is so great and I am not sure what you meant by 'benefits' this newfound gf at university is giving you. I just encourage you right now to be still and be with God. Know there is a God, the One, the only One, who can heal you from any thing hurting your life. He can wipe it from existence amazingly, as a song that's new out is mentioned. Let go and let God, wolf, and, just trust God's way to change your life now can be real. Just let faith arise. It will, like God, who, through Jesus, His son, proved to the world, that Hell hath NO sting for Him, that the power of Hell could not HOLD Him . You need nothing to change your life, wolf, but believing that your white as snow as soon as the contrite heart in you beats out.
What can wash away our sins? Nothing but the blood of Jesus (JEsus dying on cross) ! Phil Keggy sings a good song about Jesus' blood washing away our sins :) And, wolfy, once you pray to God to forgive your past sin of your life, it is forgotten by God . Gone! :)
God bless you, wolf, and, I pray the right people enter your life to help you see the only way out of this mess of our lives, ALL OUR LIVES, you, me, everybody, is believing in He, simple as that. John 3:16
 
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GreenNnice

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#92
That's a wise, wise choice, wolf, way beyond your young years, to treat this current to in relationship with you differently. I pray great blessings for you young man for choosing your current path. May God keep His power in you to keep ecstasy out of your intimacy with her. Amen, bro. Way to go :)
 
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wolfywolfs

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Wolf, you are being transparent, that's great. God loves you no matter what but continuing a promiscuous lifestyle, if you look at scripture, leads to a future life of unimaginable horror.
I want you to do something right now, and, let me first say I am not judging you in any way, shape, or form. God says in scripture: why are you looking at the spec in your brother's eye (brother in Christ) when you have a plank in your own eye.
That verse is from four Gospels, like Matthew.

Stop, drop, pray, realize the power of God is so great and I am not sure what you meant by 'benefits' this newfound gf at university is giving you. I just encourage you right now to be still and be with God. Know there is a God, the One, the only One, who can heal you from any thing hurting your life. He can wipe it from existence amazingly, as a song that's new out is mentioned. Let go and let God, wolf, and, just trust God's way to change your life now can be real. Just let faith arise. It will, like God, who, through Jesus, His son, proved to the world, that Hell hath NO sting for Him, that the power of Hell could not HOLD Him . You need nothing to change your life, wolf, but believing that your white as snow as soon as the contrite heart in you beats out.
What can wash away our sins? Nothing but the blood of Jesus (JEsus dying on cross) ! Phil Keggy sings a good song about Jesus' blood washing away our sins :) And, wolfy, once you pray to God to forgive your past sin of your life, it is forgotten by God . Gone! :)
God bless you, wolf, and, I pray the right people enter your life to help you see the only way out of this mess of our lives, ALL OUR LIVES, you, me, everybody, is believing in He, simple as that. John 3:16
ok when we say friends with benfits its some ypou have sex with for non romantic reasons and no im not gona pray and apologise for being human im happy with my life and im not gona go into the reason of why i dont belive in god or why i dont follow because this will turn this thread into an argument
 
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Jullianna

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#94
Proposing new thread ------------------->"Punctuation is Your Friend"
 
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GreenNnice

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#96
Sorry, being I type on A mytouch 4g, julieannie, I dont get the punctuation nor the grammar down right. Hunt n peck, YECH, but thats my method to chat, :(
 
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GreenNnice

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Wolf, I simply was asking what you meant by 'benefits' and having sex b4 marriage does not condemn you in Jesus' eyes. Sorry if I sounded that way, I took what you said as a christian who wasq struggling with sexb4 marriage and in latezt relationship was chosing not to do that, anyway, I don't want to argue either, I just am my green self and don't take this last thing as spiritual because my cramming Jesus down throat never my intention. I just say what I believe are facts based on what I hear God prayrrfully telling me to say. And I just want others, like you wolf, to exprrience the goodnessss I have in me which is God. Thats all I was trying to say in all I say now and before. I sure can be wordy sometimes can't I. :) take care.
 
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wolfywolfs

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Wolf, I simply was asking what you meant by 'benefits' and having sex b4 marriage does not condemn you in Jesus' eyes. Sorry if I sounded that way, I took what you said as a christian who wasq struggling with sexb4 marriage and in latezt relationship was chosing not to do that, anyway, I don't want to argue either, I just am my green self and don't take this last thing as spiritual because my cramming Jesus down throat never my intention. I just say what I believe are facts based on what I hear God prayrrfully telling me to say. And I just want others, like you wolf, to exprrience the goodnessss I have in me which is God. Thats all I was trying to say in all I say now and before. I sure can be wordy sometimes can't I. :) take care.
the benefits of sex = Sex Relieves Stress, Sex Boosts Immunity, Sex Burns Calories, Sex Improves Cardiovascular Heal, Sex Boosts Self-Esteem, Sex Improves Intimacy, Sex Reduces Pain
Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk, Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles, Sex Helps You Sleep Better.

here are some benefits see sex isnt just for love :p
 
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evelina

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the benefits of sex = Sex Relieves Stress, Sex Boosts Immunity, Sex Burns Calories, Sex Improves Cardiovascular Heal, Sex Boosts Self-Esteem, Sex Improves Intimacy, Sex Reduces Pain
Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk, Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles, Sex Helps You Sleep Better.

here are some benefits see sex isnt just for love :p

lol i think this is kinda funny!!! (actually not)

If god permits that we are sick like prostate cancer or all that stuff what you wrote above it will happen so and one can do nothing about it...so I do not believe in coincidences or scientific explanations for everything that happens in this world ... and all this stuff can happen without sex too i believe...
 
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wolfywolfs

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lol i think this is kinda funny!!! (actually not)

If god permits that we are sick like prostate cancer or all that stuff what you wrote above it will happen so and one can do nothing about it...so I do not believe in coincidences or scientific explanations for everything that happens in this world ... and all this stuff can happen without sex too i believe...
well next time you get sick dont go to the doctors leave it in god hands if you die then he wanted you to die if u live he wanted you to live or if you dont go to the doctors does that count as commiting suicide cos you refuse to get better which means you go to hell or you go to the doctor and get better which goes against god wishes cos he wanted you to get sick and die so you defy god so ull go to hell. confusing situation if you as me and yer you prob say well god doesnt want me to do that he wants me to see a doc but i bet you i can find some1 on here who would say if you get sick dont see a doctor leave it in gods hands if you see a doctor it shows you have no faith in god. sooo whos the right one whos the wrong one. next thing you do is show passages from the bible supporting you then the other perosn will show passage supporting them see where this endless circle is going.

o and another thing some people say its the devil who makes and spreads sickness because god isnt capable of doing that or capable of preventing it so again whos right and whos wrong and the most important question of all is why you are right what makes your answer different

and yer your right eating certain foods can boost ones immune system and hey science says sex is as healthy as excersicing so why not