Lonely and sad.....Need good christian friends.

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Im looking for friends too. but if I cant find them, enemies will do.
 
Trezhy said:
Hi, sorry for the "drama title". I am a 32 year old single lady. I don't have friends. I will love to meet good christian friends. I have tried to make friends in church and other christian gatherings, but each time it seems they already have their own little group of friends. I just can't seem to break in. There's no really one on one meetings, always group meetings and at the end of the meetings everyone goes about their personal group of friends etc. I get left all alone again.It is a big church and it's hard for me to get connected. All communication is mostly through e-mail, it is so unpersonal. I am very lonely, no friends, nobody to talk to and it leaves me very very depressed all the time. Please I need friends, good christian friends. If possible I can meet one on one. I am always sad and unhappy. I always feel weird and odd because I don't have any friend at all. I need to talk to people, I feel that If I remain like this I'm gonna get more deppressed and sometimes I start having feelings of self-destruction. I'm a committed Christian.
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Trezhy said:
Hi, sorry for the "drama title". I am a 32 year old single lady. I don't have friends. I will love to meet good christian friends. I have tried to make friends in church and other christian gatherings, but each time it seems they already have their own little group of friends. I just can't seem to break in. There's no really one on one meetings, always group meetings and at the end of the meetings everyone goes about their personal group of friends etc. I get left all alone again.It is a big church and it's hard for me to get connected. All communication is mostly through e-mail, it is so unpersonal. I am very lonely, no friends, nobody to talk to and it leaves me very very depressed all the time. Please I need friends, good christian friends. If possible I can meet one on one. I am always sad and unhappy. I always feel weird and odd because I don't have any friend at all. I need to talk to people, I feel that If I remain like this I'm gonna get more deppressed and sometimes I start having feelings of self-destruction. I'm a committed Christian.
I'm here. I can be your friend.😊
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Trezhy said:
Thank you guys so much for your kind response. I really appreciate it. God bless you. @christReconcilesus.....its not as if i depend on people for love. I love God eternally,nothing compares to the love i have for God. And i know he loves me more than i can ever ever imagine. I talk to God about this friendlessness, loneliness and depression all the time, yes i find comfort in His presence all the time. So it satisfies the spiritual aspect of me. I just mean friends like a normal human being. A friend or friends i can talk to, hang out with, laugh, share stuffs,etc. its just one of the basic aspects of life.
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Trezhy I know too well what your going thru ,what you wrote sounds like my life history , still going thru it ,I know how painful it can be ,keep praying and seek his council.
 
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Trezhy said:
Hi, sorry for the "drama title". I am a 32 year old single lady. I don't have friends. I will love to meet good christian friends. I have tried to make friends in church and other christian gatherings, but each time it seems they already have their own little group of friends. I just can't seem to break in. There's no really one on one meetings, always group meetings and at the end of the meetings everyone goes about their personal group of friends etc. I get left all alone again.It is a big church and it's hard for me to get connected. All communication is mostly through e-mail, it is so unpersonal. I am very lonely, no friends, nobody to talk to and it leaves me very very depressed all the time. Please I need friends, good christian friends. If possible I can meet one on one. I am always sad and unhappy. I always feel weird and odd because I don't have any friend at all. I need to talk to people, I feel that If I remain like this I'm gonna get more deppressed and sometimes I start having feelings of self-destruction. I'm a committed Christian.

God bless you
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But to those reading this, maybe you need to hear this today. In Christ, we can be truly set free from the chains of loneliness and depression. His perfect love casts out all fear. The whispers we hear telling us we are worthy of self-destruction are lies from Satan. Only in Him we can be made whole and new again.

You are eternally loved by the God of the universe and nothing can separate us from that.
Run to Jesus for He cares for you more than you know!

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God bless you Trezhy. May you find a few good friends here to speak with and fellowship with. There are some good people here. Kind and loving, and committed Christians as well.
 
Trezhy said:
Hi, sorry for the "drama title". I am a 32 year old single lady. I don't have friends. I will love to meet good christian friends. I have tried to make friends in church and other christian gatherings, but each time it seems they already have their own little group of friends. I just can't seem to break in. There's no really one on one meetings, always group meetings and at the end of the meetings everyone goes about their personal group of friends etc. I get left all alone again.It is a big church and it's hard for me to get connected. All communication is mostly through e-mail, it is so unpersonal. I am very lonely, no friends, nobody to talk to and it leaves me very very depressed all the time. Please I need friends, good christian friends. If possible I can meet one on one. I am always sad and unhappy. I always feel weird and odd because I don't have any friend at all. I need to talk to people, I feel that If I remain like this I'm gonna get more deppressed and sometimes I start having feelings of self-destruction. I'm a committed Christian.

God bless you
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Hi
Welcome.
Nice to meet you
I’m also new and just don’t fit into the church scene either.
Blessings
 
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