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Gabriel777
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I've seen people say this to someone else "I love you but I'm not IN love with you". What does this mean? How is that possible?
I've seen people say this to someone else "I love you but I'm not IN love with you". What does this mean? How is that possible?
I've seen people say this to someone else "I love you but I'm not IN love with you". What does this mean? How is that possible?
It is an American idea of love. It is rather silly.
Ram brought up a good point to me in a private message, he said, as I understood it, that this phrase is not biblical. It is biblical but....it is vague and can have a lady or gent come to their own conclusion regarding when its time for love.
"Daughters...do not awaken love before its proper time." - God's Word translation (This is a fairly new translation). I agree with Ram, and, I think it is very easy to be persuaded by Satan who is the king liar, manipulator, thief, cheat, and, I can go on with more term to describe Satan but I won't except to say this: Think of the worst ravaging things one can do to another and that is Satan, so sad that as an angel he had a great lifel but then thought he could out-win God and have it all. Little did He know the battle belongs to the Lord, and, so does the victory, which arose when Jesus died on the cross and RISING again, BEATING DEATH. Halelujah![]()
I am a little off topic there, sorry, but I just get EXCITED when I think about how great God's power is and certainly IF God tells us that we can keep our love harbored until He pleases... YES, WE CAN !And, that brings me to my next thing, or 'thang,' as julieannie would say back down in the South
, my next thing is another translation of the same verse....King James Verson states: "Daughters...do not awaken or arouse love before he pleases."
Yes, I already mentioned these two verses in my last post, but now I am scrutinizing the last part of the verse from God's Word and KJV translations and seeing IF there is really a difference in way these two verses translate. So, and, no, I don't think Ram is right on saying things about american love silly, but I am saying this: Ram is right ON in saying that the God's Word version is not biblical, well, at least as Ram sees it, and, I see it, one version speaks of HUMAN INTERVENTION quite possible to get to a stage of it being alright to AROUSE or AWAKEN love and one version relies SOLELY on God saying its time to arouse or awaken love. Why do I always write in caps so much, for emphasis, sorry, I am NOT yelling at anyone or saying I am holier than you.
Ram states that 'its time,' means that we as humans DECIDE that proper time (Am I getting this right on, Ram?) Anyway, that makes sense to me then that the KJV bible says the way we should NOT arouse love is said in a much clearer understanding. Much! The first part of the 'awaken love' verse is the same pretty much, as KJV uses words, 'arouse or awaken love ' in addition to God's Word translation's 'awaken love' only said . But, the second part of THIS verse, ahhhh, NOW we are getting somewhere....
It says in God's Word 'Daughters...do not arouse love before ITS PROPER TIME' while KJV says totally different words. Completely different ! KJV says Daughters...do not awaken or arouse love BEFORE HE PLEASES.' As said in last post, the 'he,' refers to God. THAT verse in KJV makes infinite more sense to me because it is YES, YES, YES, God that we are wanting to please regarding awakening' love.'
Now, the 'Do not awaken love before it's time' phrase in the God's Word translation therefore is saying that it could be when we THINK its the RIGHT TIME to AROUSE or AWAKEN our love for another person. No, no, no ! THAT is not what I mean to say and that is definitely important to understand that God awakens the love inside us for another person, not us. And, UNTIL God awakens that love inside us, we, as singles, NEED, NEED, NEED, to stay clear away from things that are our weaknesses, because. When I said guys who are tempted by porn, I am NOT saying either to stay off the internet necessarily...Absolutely not, just go to GREAT WEBSITES that can FEED you constantly with the goodness God intends for you, like christianchat.com and other sites (I like bible.com and biblegateway.com).
OK, so falling 'in love' with someone else or 'loving someone' are two different things
I am not sure what you are saying there, julieannie, in your last post, but porn is offensive and its one of the ways we arouse love before God pleases. And that leads to pregnancies in girls and socially conscious hurting in guys....
Yes, rad, that is true , wait until God shows you the way to love. And He will when you are wakeful ready for it.
Psalm, well, I don't know, hmm, well, here is what I think, that ONCE WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP OUR LOVE IS ALREADY AROUSED . TOO LATE TO TURN OFF THE SPOUT, SO, IFbecause one IN relationship love is aroused. I believe that Solomon is saying to wait on Him for His perfect timing . And , it may include love IF you are EVER ready for it
Liam, yes, your thoughts resonate with power, and, yes, people thay do not WAIT for God to arouse love in them when they are READY are very likely to arouse it before its the right time for it and it can very EASILY lead to compromising choices than will affect you the rest of your life. Nt not to say all doom and gloom, we ALL make mistakes. its a given, we WILL fall, and, their will be consequences. But God will pick us up EVERY TIME we fall if we reach out our hand. God's (hand) is always outstretched.
And, msamber, good thought, yes, we will only be in true love all the rest of our lives loving our spouse IF its right from God. And , that's not to say they're won't be spousal disappointments, there will he, but with God the center you will understand what arouses each other.
I came cross this in the Ladies Forum.... I thought it was almost a good poem... there are a few lines I wouldn'thave written, as a christian but for the most part it's ok.. so just check it out./... I am not even sure if this is the right place to share it....
"I will wait for you" by Official P4CM Poet JANETTE...IKZ - Inspirational Videos - GodTube