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Lynx

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Aug 13, 2014
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And the guys who talk about "People choose mates based on how well they fit with the human biological need to reproduce" will be here in about 37 minutes.

Why so long? They had to stop by the "Who to date" thread first.
 

Belka

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#3
I like what the guy is advising, however not everyone has close friends/mentors, etc. in their life that can really weigh in in those things.
But overall I would say it is definitely important to get a third-party opinion (and gather as many as possible, but from trusted sources) for:
Where there is no counsel, the people fall;​
But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.​
[Prov. 11:14]​
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#4
I like what the guy is advising, however not everyone has close friends/mentors, etc. in their life that can really weigh in in those things.
That ties in with some other advice I once heard.

"Think of your three closest friends and ask yourself, would I trust each of them with the key to my front door? If the answer is no, find some better friends. Everybody needs three close friends that can be trusted through anything life throws at you."
 

Lanolin

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Dec 15, 2018
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lets all vote on who you going to end up with Belka.

Im sure there are many singles are tired of all the dating advice that goes nowhere.

when someone says 'there are plenty of fish in the sea' they dont really know what they are on about I think, not in this world we live in.
 

true_believer

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Sep 24, 2020
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lets all vote on who you going to end up with Belka.

Im sure there are many singles are tired of all the dating advice that goes nowhere.

when someone says 'there are plenty of fish in the sea' they dont really know what they are on about I think, not in this world we live in.
Truth be told, I have found faith based dating coaches to have the most profund and practical advise when it comes to dating.