Finding Her ..

[Lynx]

Of course no one owes me.

ERROR: Logic inconsistency.

What you said conflicts with how you have been acting.

In another thread you acted like people owed it to you to carry on conversations.

In this very thread, with three short words, "Can't? Or won't?" you have accused somebody of deliberately withholding assistance from you.

We're happy to welcome anybody who comes to this forum to chat, but we don't owe you anything. Stop acting like we do.

 

[seoulsearch]

does that matter, to this thread ?

Does that mean no?

 

[seoulsearch]

demanding am I?
So you're an expert as well are you ?
Of course no one owes me.
Can I not ask a person to on me ?
I suppose it's a crime that I'm a member of this forum.


Does anyone know how/where I can possibly find the woman ?
That's all I want to know!

How can you possibly get so defensive when I am just answering you in the very same style of communication that you've been using ever since you got here?

 

[UCA4J]

Does that mean no?

well, unless you have a suggestion, then yes, it means no.









And please don't correct my grammar.

 

[seoulsearch]

well, unless you have a suggestion, then yes, it means no.









And please don't correct my grammar.

I simply asked my own question in my own words.

How did I correct your grammar?

 

[UCA4J]

How can you possibly get so defensive when I am just answering you in the very same style of communication that you've been using ever since you got here?

is my communication style, a crime ?

Back to topic please 🤔

 

[UCA4J]

I simply asked my own question in my own words.

How did I correct your grammar?

you didn't correct my grammar, and I'm ensuring no one does.

 

[seoulsearch]

is my communication style, a crime ?

Back to topic please 🤔

Are you the only one allowed to use it then?

 

[seoulsearch]

you didn't correct my grammar, and I'm ensuring no one does.

You're ensuring no one else does?

How do you plan to enforce that?

 

[TamLynn]

Does anyone know how/where I can possibly find the woman ?
That's all I want to know![/QUOTE]

I've read through all the replies, and the answer is clearly "No".

 

[Johari]

er, cos its ...let me guess .... private ?

I mean what do you want to pm about? I don't typically pm strangers.

 

[Johari]

And will you be able to answer this without just asking more questions and dodging what's being asked of you as you've done in all the other threads you've answered?

I didn't realize he answers with questions but I do now. I thought he came at me sorta rude but I wasn't sure if I was misinterpreting since with text it's sometimes hard to determine tone.

I wasn't aware he had a reputation in other threads...well I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt but I don't think I'll be pming anytime soon.

Thanks for saying something.

 

[seoulsearch]

I didn't realize he answers with questions but I do now. I thought he came at me sorta rude but I wasn't sure if I was misinterpreting since with text it's sometimes hard to determine tone.

I wasn't aware he had a reputation in other threads...well I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt but I don't think I'll be pming anytime soon.

Thanks for saying something.

You're most welcome.

I have been reading his posts for a while now, and had noticed that he never answers anyone else's questions, but always questions others nonstop, and then continues on only to question the very answers that they give.

I'm not saying this is a bad thing. Everyone has their own communication style and there are lots of people who like to glean information out of others while never giving any about themselves, which isn't always bad.

What I do question though, is using this method of interrogation on others while being unwilling, and even downright offended by having someone else answer them in the exact same way that they answer everyone else -- as if it's alright for them to do, but not for others to do back to them. This was the only thing I was left questioning.

I realize anyone who walks into this thread is going to think I am being terribly rude and will probably think I'm "not a real Christian," but in essence, I only continued to post in order to prove my point -- that he questions everyone else, yet only answers with questions, but yet gets mad and defensive if someone else does the exact same thing back to him.

It just seemed only fair that people should realize this when answering his questions -- because I know that if I personally answer him again, it will always be in questions, unless he answers mine in a substantial way first.

For anyone out there who is reading this, you don't owe anyone a PM, even if they make it sound like you do or try to say that you should talk to them privately.

 

[oyster67]

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HEY!!!! That's Me!

 

[UCA4J]

Are you the only one allowed to use it then?

no, but it shouldn't be used to judge me.
So I speak a bit differently, boohoo.
But I'm not a criminal, nor am I a tr**l either.

 

[UCA4J]

I mean what do you want to pm about? I don't typically pm strangers.

you mentioned wtm or something.
Is that of any use to me?
That is what the pm is for.
Otherwise, don't bother 🙂

 

[oyster67]

I should haven't made a joke about it. So, I apologize for that!

I apologize for making jokes on another thread. Jesus put us here to show you that He loves you very much. Life it short. Lets make it count for Jesus. Everything will work out in the long run.

Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to [his] purpose.

 

[UCA4J]

You're ensuring no one else does?

How do you plan to enforce that?

because I wrote it there in advance.

I suppose your gonna call me a troll for that comment.

 

[UCA4J]

You haven't had a date in over 20 years. I've dated for the past 7 years. And had a couple long-term relationships in those 7 years. I wouldn't say I'm an expert, but not having a date in over 20 years, you might be a bit inexperienced of how dating works.

So, yes, after three pms and you're "searching" for this girl and putting all your eggs in one basket, I think it's a bit too fast and you've become attached too quickly. I used to be like that, too, and it kept people away from me.

It wasn't an attack and you gotta stop making everything out to seem to be an attack. It makes it very hard for people to talk to you or offer you advice. I should haven't made a joke about it. So, I apologize for that!

still want me to talk to you .... Or not ?

 

[seoulsearch]

no, but it shouldn't be used to judge me.
So I speak a bit differently, boohoo.
But I'm not a criminal, nor am I a tr**l either.

All I'm doing is speaking back to you in the same style, no? Why does that upset you so much?

And why would you think I'm judging you?