Love Advice with Dr. Des

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Paul David Hewson KBE OL, aka Bono, lead singer of the rock band U2 since 1976.

 

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Maybe he is just one of the few celebrities' that don't get botox or whatever else they use or maybe it is just a bad photo. You never know. We have the big lip thing here where everyone seems to get their lips filled. It just looks completely ridiculous to me.
 

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Maybe he is just one of the few celebrities' that don't get botox or whatever else they use or maybe it is just a bad photo. You never know. We have the big lip thing here where everyone seems to get their lips filled. It just looks completely ridiculous to me.
Nothing like illness and/or politics to age a person ;)

I live in a building where I used to somewhat regularly see certain people come and go. You know what? Before people die, they often undergo a very noticeable change. I have seen this again and again in my almost 30 years here. Ugh. Love and death :oops:
 

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Nothing like illness and/or politics to age a person ;)

I live in a building where I used to somewhat regularly see certain people come and go. You know what? Before people die, they often undergo a very noticeable change. I have seen this again and again in my almost 30 years here. Ugh. Love and death.
I have been watching healing journeys today on you tube and have really being enjoying it. Many speakers who have gone through things and have come out the other end. My favourite is the speaker Jeremiah very down to earth and simple. Just the way I like it.
 

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hmmm .. I'm a male, I breathe, and people don't talk to me regularly face to face.
That's not a recent occurrence.
I would say that if people don't start conversations with you face to face then you aren't getting far enough to be technically rejected. People have to have some interactions with you before they are able to reject you.

Seriously I pretty much only talk to animals or small children not because I'm deliberately rejecting everyone else out there, but mostly because I'm crap at small talk and usually don't think it's worth the effort.
 

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I have been watching healing journeys today on you tube and have really being enjoying it. Many speakers who have gone through things and have come out the other end. My favourite is the speaker Jeremiah very down to earth and simple. Just the way I like it.
I just listened to some of today's vid, thanks!

Have you heard any of of
White Chair/I Am Second?

It is people's personal testimonies, some of them famous
people, of how their life changed when they came to Christ :)
 
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I would say that if people don't start conversations with you face to face then you aren't getting far enough to be technically rejected. People have to have some interactions with you before they are able to reject you.

Seriously I pretty much only talk to animals or small children not because I'm deliberately rejecting everyone else out there, but mostly because I'm crap at small talk and usually don't think it's worth the effort.
so, have I got it all wrong ? 🤷
 

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hmmm .. I'm a male, I breathe, and people don't talk to me regularly face to face.
That's not a recent occurrence.

I still don't understand why you feel that way...people don't talk to me regularly too... I don't want to assume...I don't want to make u feel uncomfortable too by my questions but thank you for answering me 😊


You are physically attractive and you are actually very patient and dont get offended that fast 😅 so I hope you won't feel that way... 😊 and maybe there is something that you should work on in the way you interact with people...maybe..beside breathing... 😊
 

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I still don't understand why you feel that way...people don't talk to me regularly too... I don't want to assume...I don't want to make u feel uncomfortable too by my questions but thank you for answering me 😊


You are physically attractive and you are actually very patient and dont get offended that fast 😅 so I hope you won't feel that way... 😊 and maybe there is something that you should work on in the way you interact with people...maybe..beside breathing... 😊
Sometimes when things happen the enemy is first to appear and feed our minds with lies. If you accept the lie it becomes your belief and then becomes a stronghold. Something we accept, believe and don't question. It is designed to rob your life and to steal your peace and joy. Only the Lord can pull it down if you cry out to him and ask. Sometimes it takes time. I think we all are going through this is some way, shape or form.
 
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I still don't understand why you feel that way...people don't talk to me regularly too... I don't want to assume...I don't want to make u feel uncomfortable too by my questions but thank you for answering me 😊


You are physically attractive and you are actually very patient and dont get offended that fast 😅 so I hope you won't feel that way... 😊 and maybe there is something that you should work on in the way you interact with people...maybe..beside breathing... 😊
me, physically attractive ?
Have you seen me 🤔
Ill have to be careful what I do in public .. 🤪
 

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me, physically attractive ?
Have you seen me 🤔 🤪
Yeah,you are...that's your picture right?


You'll be careful? Sorry...With what? And why?
Any reason that you think or feel why people don't talk to you? You can answer me if you want...if not...I'll understand 😊
 
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Yeah,you are...that's your picture right?


You'll be careful? Sorry...With what? And why?
Any reason that you think or feel why people don't talk to you? You can answer me if you want...if not...I'll understand 😊
oh, I thought you were talking about my shoulders downwards.

Well I don't expect everyone to talk me.



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cinder

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so, have I got it all wrong ? 🤷
All wrong? That would be a pretty exceptional feat. Most people can get at least a few things right (and I'm not sure if there are any who can get them all right). All I'm trying to say is that there could be a myriad of reasons that people don't initiate a conversation / interaction with you that have nothing to do with you and therefore they aren't rejecting you. If you're feeling really brave, you could try initiating conversations with them as most were raised to be too polite to be rude to strangers (after all we all seem to save the worst treatment for the people we're closest to).
 

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I just listened to some of today's vid, thanks!

Have you heard any of of White Chair/I Am Second?

It is people's personal testimonies, some of them famous
people, of how their life changed when they came to Christ :)
I will check it out. Thanks
I think there is a few Healing Journeys Today so just in case you got the wrong one. This is the link. I like listening to Jeremiah, Herman and Raquel and Mike. Not too fond of the others but that is just me.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk9eEwphOYdhqNtM8THp15A
 
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Dr. Des. I have such a huge crush on the lead singer of a band. How do I have him in my life?
 

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Eat sea urchins. Some cultures consider them an aphrodisiac.

Judging by his hair, he's fond enough of them as it is.

Dr. Des. I have such a huge crush on the lead singer of a band. How do I have him in my life?