I'm not interested but, she is persistent...

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Liamson said:
Grrrr....

I don't want to make a scene. In person, alone and bearing my absence of feelings is not what I'm going to do. I want everything to be casual and for her to see what its like to be with me and my friends, as a friend. So, group stuff is about the only way I'm willing to see her again.
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Tell her shes creepy on a post it note... Seriously.. I think it might work
 
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Jullianna

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Liamson said:
Grrrr....

I don't want to make a scene. In person, alone and bearing my absence of feelings is not what I'm going to do. I want everything to be casual and for her to see what its like to be with me and my friends, as a friend. So, group stuff is about the only way I'm willing to see her again.
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I think the "treating her like a friend and nothing more" advice is the best you've gotten. Glad you've chosen that. :)
 
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kiwi_OT

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Liamson said:
Grrrr....

I don't want to make a scene. In person, alone and bearing my absence of feelings is not what I'm going to do. I want everything to be casual and for her to see what its like to be with me and my friends, as a friend. So, group stuff is about the only way I'm willing to see her again.
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Grr to you too lol

Seriously your not going to make a scene, take her somewhere public and again speak your mind very gently to her. She wont scream or yell at you cos you're in public and chicks dont do that unless their really manipulative and want to act like a toddler in a grocery store and this girl just sounds naive.

Please look at it from her perspective. You should be complimented that shes considered you as an illustration of boyfriend material, there are a ton of guys here who moan and whinge about even achieving that feat. What is she going to think and make of you ignoring her? Are you going to be another "he said he was a christian but he sure didnt act like it.." to a fellow sister? You are a christian man and she deserves an explanation so she can improve, and move on with her life otherwise she'll be stuck in limbo thinking that her actions arent annoying.

Do you think in his 20s Jesus might have been hit on every now and then? (I bet he did) Do you think Jesus ignored them or set them straight and on their way?
 
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