I picked rarely.. Most of my friends, when we go out, get hit on. Not me. MIND YOU I don't WANT to get hit on especially at a karaoke bar.. but it still stings a little.. I don't date, admittedly I'm picky but I've not had the option of turning anyone down either. I have never been thrilled with how I look and I'm also one that has to work at it. When you feel insecure about how you look and nobody tells you any different, well it's hard to change that opinion.
I was watching Oprah one day and there was a lady who was in a fire.. her whole face was badly scarred but she had a terrific attitude about herself. I felt remorseful instantly and prayed to God, how could I think of myself so poorly, I'm lucky, so many people are worse off than me. I told God I would stop my bad attitude.. now this is hard to do and I slip up but I remember what I promised God and then I ask for forgiveness.
I was watching Oprah one day and there was a lady who was in a fire.. her whole face was badly scarred but she had a terrific attitude about herself. I felt remorseful instantly and prayed to God, how could I think of myself so poorly, I'm lucky, so many people are worse off than me. I told God I would stop my bad attitude.. now this is hard to do and I slip up but I remember what I promised God and then I ask for forgiveness.
Blessings!