Unconditional love and the church's approach to homosexuality

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I just want to butt into this and say that Homosexual Christians are in the same salvation boat as the rest of us believers. All of us are sinners, and salvation does not come from what you come from in this world.
There is no such animal...as a homosexual christian. Just as any other sinner.
 
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God loves all. He loves the worst sinner. If He did not, no one would ever be saved. He is not as we are. He loves even when He is not loved back.

Salvation is offered to all but not all accept. Gospel 101

You must add details to your statement. God does love all people...but, He hates the sin we commit.
We must be repented, (born again ) and maintain that until the end.
 
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I guess you never took Anthropology Jerry. I did. but here is a primer for you


If someone asked you to describe your identity to them, where would you begin? Would it come down to your skin color or your nationality? What about the language you speak, your religion, your cultural traditions or your family's ancestry?


This bewildering question often pushes people to separate their identities into two parts: race versus ethnicity. But what do these two terms actually mean, and what's the difference between race and ethnicity in the first place?

These words are often used interchangeably, but technically, they're defined as separate things. "'Race' and 'ethnicity' have been and continue to be used as ways to describe human diversity," said Nina Jablonski, an anthropologist and palaeobiologist at The Pennsylvania State University, who is known for her research into the evolution of human skin color. "Race is understood by most people as a mixture of physical, behavioral and cultural attributes. Ethnicity recognizes differences between people mostly on the basis of language and shared culture."
I did have an anthropology class many moons ago. Reason: easy A. The study of humans. I know how most people understand the concept of race, and it is evil, pure and simple.

You're free to agree with man-made social/racial constructs. I will stick with what God's word declares: we are all of man, created in God's image and after His likeness. We are all human, though we have been divided and made separate by God's sovereign choice of Israel (there is Israel and there are goyim, or nations not Israel). However, all are human and therefore related one to another by their humanity.

When Adam and Eve were created, they must have possessed every possible genetic combination that accounts for the various levels of melanin, various heights, sizes, shapes, colored eyes, etc, all of which are human.

From the time God instructed and saved Noah, to the time when Nimrod ordered the tower built, to the time when God confounded the languages of the men at Babel, to the time when God chose Abraham, there is one human race.

From Abraham to today, there are many nations (one Israel and many goyim), but all are human, and therefore one.
 

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We are called to discern, to beware of, to correct ourselves prior to judging sinful behavior, etc. All the people in the OSAS camp that knew and were familiar with Dave Gass, Paul Maxwell, Josh Harris, and the many others that professed faith in Christ as Savior and Lord, preached the gospel message, taught through the Bible, etc, believed God knew their hearts that they were eternally saved. However, when they fell away and renounced Christ completely, their response: they were never truly saved. Does that mean they were false teachers from the beginning? Or can it be that they did have faith, God knew their hearts because they did have faith, but they were once saved, but they walked away, they apostacized, they succumbed to temptations: the lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, pride of life, the world, and the devil?

Do you know anyone personally who claims they are supposedly born again, they profess Jesus as savior and Lord, which means they upposedly came to repentance and faith in Jesus, but is not living a changed life, and are still doing all the sinful things and going to all the sinful places and saying all the same sinful talk they engaged in before they proclaimed to you that they were "born again"? And if you do know someone like that, do you consider them eternally saved?
1 John 2: 18 & 19

"Children, it is the last hour; and just as you have heard that the antichrist is coming, so now many antichrists have appeared. This is how we know it is the last hour. They went out from us, but they did not belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. But their departure made it clear that none of them belonged to us."

It's easy to claim to be a Christian. Statistically, somewhere around 4% of church attenders are actually born again. Making the claim is one thing, what God says about them another. There is nothing new about this. I was involved in a fellowship where the people seemed on fire for the Lord. Most of them fell away when the pastor went overseas for 3 weeks. I asked the Lord why, He just said, "The parable of the sower".

I know from personal experience. I went out the front at a Billy Graham meeting, made a decision, signed the card, did the follow up program and - nothing. I was just as lost as before I went to the meeting. When I was born again a few years later, I knew it was for real. Eternal life is just that - eternal. If someone is born again and falls away, they will come back. I met someone I knew 30 years ago who backslid completely. Lord Jesus had just brought her back. The born again are like corks on water, they can be pushed down, but they will rise to the surface again.

What backsliders suffer is the loss of kingdom rewards. They get into heaven by the skin of their teeth, so to speak. It's a shame that there is so little emphasis on the Kingdom of God. It's supposed to be priority number one. Instead we get arguments about doctrine, disunity, spiritual pride and a lack of love. A good deal of the problem goes back to the point I made before. Many churchgoers are Christians in name only. The Bible says that God puts us into Christ. And only God can take us out of Christ. So we need to be sure that we are in Christ in the first place. Then we can depend on the keeping power of Christ. John 17 is Jesus's prayer for all Christians. If ever there was prayer that God would answer, it was that one.
 
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You must add details to your statement. God does love all people...but, He hates the sin we commit.
We must be repented, (born again ) and maintain that until the end.
for homework, you can look up my posts so that you will see I do not need you to tell me what I need to write

I've covered the bases many times

who made you the hall monitor?
 
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You're free to agree with man-made social/racial constructs. I will stick with what God's word declares

only you don't

nothing I wrote was about man made anything. you have 2 eyes? maybe not. you don't seem able to see what is around you

I'm leaving this thread. it's becoming as redundant as an ingrown toenail
 
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only you don't

nothing I wrote was about man made anything. you have 2 eyes? maybe not. you don't seem able to see what is around you

I'm leaving this thread. it's becoming as redundant as an ingrown toenail
Race and racism is man-made.
 
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for homework, you can look up my posts so that you will see I do not need you to tell me what I need to write

I've covered the bases many times

who made you the hall monitor?
.....God did when His word is fragmented. I attempted to add to your good point. Geeessscch.

Newbies need leadership n posts.
 
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only you don't

nothing I wrote was about man made anything. you have 2 eyes? maybe not. you don't seem able to see what is around you

I'm leaving this thread. it's becoming as redundant as an ingrown toenail
No matter how hard you try, the pride f man is deep, t must be broken before they can see, we can try to help, but only God can break it
 
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No matter how hard you try, the pride f man is deep, t must be broken before they can see, we can try to help, but only God can break it
Speaking of the pride of man: 😆 "We"? As in you? That's your pride shining through. You're so full of animus that you don't even read what I wrote, you're simply on auto-animus-pilot. Smh. 😥

Again, I forgive you 🙏
 
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Speaking of the pride of man: 😆 "We"? As in you? That's your pride shining through. You're so full of animus that you don't even read what I wrote, you're simply on auto-animus-pilot. Smh. 😥

Again, I forgive you 🙏
I was not even directing anything to you

as for what you believe, I already proved your pride will not allow you to get on your knees and give it all to Christ, you believe god demands we must maintain our salvation by works

now yu can either back away like a smart man. It I will repost what you said.

your forgiveness means nothing, because I have done nothing wrong,
 
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I was not even directing anything to you

as for what you believe, I already proved your pride will not allow you to get on your knees and give it all to Christ, you believe god demands we must maintain our salvation by works

now yu can either back away like a smart man. It I will repost what you said.

your forgiveness means nothing, because I have done nothing wrong,
You've done no wrong? 👏 You don't examine yourself at all, it seems. I have, I do, and I will continue to examine myself, for repentance and the Lord commands that we examine ourselves. You can go on believing you've done no wrong, though.

You have my permission to repost all of what I wrote. I am neither in fear of being right on some things nor wrong on some things, for God knows my heart. As to you, however, since you are right on all things, you have nothing at all to worry about: You've done no wrong. 👏
 

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No, it doesn't. It means narrow.

G4728
στενός
stenos
Thayer Definition:
1) narrow, strait
Part of Speech: adjective
A Related Word by Thayer’s/Strong’s Number: probably from the base of G2476
Citing in TDNT: 7:604, 1077


Mat_19:23 Then said Jesus unto his disciples, Verily I say unto you, That a rich man shall hardly enter into the kingdom of heaven.

This word means difficult.

G1423
δυσκόλως
duskolōs
Thayer Definition:
1) with difficulty
Part of Speech: adverb
A Related Word by Thayer’s/Strong’s Number: from G1422
Correct. "Strait" used of narrow passages in seas such as the Strait of Gibraltar and the Taiwan Strait.
 
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You've done no wrong? 👏 You don't examine yourself at all, it seems. I have, I do, and I will continue to examine myself, for repentance and the Lord commands that we examine ourselves. You can go on believing you've done no wrong, though.

You have my permission to repost all of what I wrote. I am neither in fear of being right on some things nor wrong on some things, for God knows my heart. As to you, however, since you are right on all things, you have nothing at all to worry about: You've done no wrong. 👏
You don’t examine yourself. You bear false witness against others. If you examined yourself you would repent and confess
 
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You don’t examine yourself. You bear false witness against others. If you examined yourself you would repent and confess
I do examine myself, and when I do, this is what I find: I am saved, I am being sanctified, and one day I will be eternally glorified with my Lord Jesus and every other saint. God willing, you might be, too.

I have repented and confessed, I do repent and confess, and will continue to repent and confess the rest of my entire lifetime until I am at home and present with the Lord. How about you?
 
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I do examine myself, and when I do, this is what I find: I am saved, I am being sanctified, and one day I will be eternally glorified with my Lord Jesus and every other saint. God willing, you might be, too.

I have repented and confessed, I do repent and confess, and will continue to repent and confess the rest of my entire lifetime until I am at home and present with the Lord. How about you?
But you believe you may fail and end up lost
I believe God one is winning and will continue to win in forming me in the image of his son
 
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But you believe you may fail and end up lost
I believe God one is winning and will continue to win in forming me in the image of his son
I don't believe I will fail. But I do believe people in fact fail, fall away, apostacize, go dark again. They are all around us. Many come out publicly as some sort of badge of honor or defiance. As for me: as I stated earlier: I am saved, I am being sanctified, and I will one day be glorified.
 
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I believe that the way many churches and Christians approach the issue of homosexuality is unbiblical.

Churches market themselves as offering unconditional love.
However, all too often they use a bait and switch tactic whereby they offer unconditional love to tempt people in and yet once 'captured', it is discovered that this love and acceptance is conditional on the newcomer changing in whichever way the church 'elders' dictate they should change.
If the church member doesn't change, they may find that they are not included in ways that they were before.

This is manipulation and spiritual abuse, and is absolutely not the kind of unconditional love offered by Jesus.

Before anybody says that homosexuality is forbidden by the Bible and that I'm "ignoring scripture"...
Prostitution is also forbidden in the Bible, and we all know how Jesus asked people not to throw stones and cast judgement.

You see, Jesus uses love to define scripture, and yet humans use scripture to define love.

Jesus reached out to the marginalised, and yet we reach out to condemn.
Perhaps it's in our fallen nature to want to play God?

Lastly, the reason I'm sticking up for homosexuals and using them as an example here is not because I'm gay myself, just as the reason why I'm against racism is not because I am black.
Brother or sister, no one who is saved is homosexual, and in church, me personally I wouldn’t allow a homosexual, not that i don’t love them but, how about the bride of Christ to be kept pure? this is my point, if that person is overcome by sin as Galatians 6:2 says seeking help, then i can allow that kind of person, but if it is like the brother in 1 Corinthians 5, as Paul himself says our responsibility is to judge these type of people among us. We can’t help a person who is unwilling to get help similarly the Lord said in Matthew 7:6 “don’t throw what is sacred to the dogs..” Not that the Lord hates these people, in fact He loves them enough to die for them but the meaning here is similar to the one in Proverbs 26:11 the unrepentant, people are the ones to be not kept, the only love act we can have is pray for them. We don’t play God sister or brother some might be trying to play God honestly , our responsibility is to judge the unrepentant among us, just as the unrepentant go to hell, and the woman that the stones weren’t cast was herself repentant, and humble. The Lord said go and sin no more, He didn’t say you are a sinner or condemn, maybe this is the point you are trying to make that instead of saying youre a homosexual, your this your that, we should say repent, because this isn’t good?
 
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Interesting.
So you feel that homosexuals can be saved prior to forsaking their sexuality?

Do you feel that homosexual people are created in God's image, or not?

Acts 8:26-40.
This passage recounts Philip's encounter with an Ethiopian eunuch. Eunuchs in Biblical times were ostracised because of their failure to adhere to sexual norms.
Common cultural understanding of the time would have held that their status as eunuchs barred them from inclusion in God's community. And yet, the eunuch in this passage seeks to follow the path of Christ even as he continues to live out his sexual otherness. He is welcomed and joyfully baptised into Christ's community.
The eunuch's question to Philip, "what is to prevent me from being baptised", highlights that his sexual status is not a barrier to inclusion in the eyes of God.

That, my friend, is God's love.
romans 6:1-4 “what shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.” Those who are baptized are baptized into new life, not living in the old. Repent from your dishonorning contradiction of the unconditional love of God.