i slapped my wife for cheating
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im not trying to be funny. im tired of feminist views ruining my life and fools who say u should NEVER smack a women! i dnt go for spousal abuse but cheating or abuse (real abuse) to children and there gonna be a cheek turned alright! but to restate i dnt belive in abuse but some people only understand pain!
This has nothing to do with feminism, or wether one can punish ones wife.
It has to do with what is in your heart in Jesus.
What ever your wife did, Jesus forgave her.
Jesus also firgives you.
Instead of being concerned oveer who was right or wrong.
You need to look to Jesus, pray, and let Jesus guide your heart,
Not about what one deserves, but setting self aside to know the greatness , forgivness, and love in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Look what anger has already stolen from you, what more will be taken?
Set aside all in self, and let Jesus bring His presance into your life, let Jesus show you His perfect love.
You and your family are in my prayers in Jesus for healing.
In Jesus, God bless.
pickles
It has to do with what is in your heart in Jesus.
What ever your wife did, Jesus forgave her.
Jesus also firgives you.
Instead of being concerned oveer who was right or wrong.
You need to look to Jesus, pray, and let Jesus guide your heart,
Not about what one deserves, but setting self aside to know the greatness , forgivness, and love in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Look what anger has already stolen from you, what more will be taken?
Set aside all in self, and let Jesus bring His presance into your life, let Jesus show you His perfect love.
You and your family are in my prayers in Jesus for healing.
In Jesus, God bless.
pickles
Hi Ickabod,
As Christians, we need to deal with family matters in a loving manner. We need to especially be careful about anger. Hitting and slapping is not the way to 'chastise' a wife. Matter of fact that can probably put you in jail. Violence doesn't solve anything-it just makes it worse.
As leader of the family, do you really want to see your family come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ or do you just want to control everybody?
As Christians, we need to deal with family matters in a loving manner. We need to especially be careful about anger. Hitting and slapping is not the way to 'chastise' a wife. Matter of fact that can probably put you in jail. Violence doesn't solve anything-it just makes it worse.
As leader of the family, do you really want to see your family come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ or do you just want to control everybody?
L
To be honest, I think this is repulsive. We should NEVER be violent to our spouses no matter what they have done, for many reasons 1. Vengeance is Gods not ours, 2. We are to love our wives with respect and honour not with violence and discipline, 3. We should love our wives as Christ loves His bride, 4. We are first and foremost to forgive, 5. The bible says that if a wife commits adultery (cheating) then we have grounds for divorce even though God hates it, it never says we have grounds for hitting them, 6. The bible never says to use violence to 'chastise' our wives and 7. It is physical abuse.
L
Romans 12:17-21
(17) Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
(18) If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
(19) Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
(20) Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
(21) Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Revelation 14:6-7
(6) And I saw another angel fly in the midst of heaven, having the everlasting gospel to preach unto them that dwell on the earth, and to every nation, and kindred, and tongue, and people,
(7) Saying with a loud voice, Fear God, and give glory to him; for the hour of his judgment is come: and worship him that made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and the fountains of waters.
Ephesians 5:25
(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Romans 5:8
(8) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Luke 23:34
(34) Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
(17) Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
(18) If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
(19) Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
(20) Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
(21) Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Revelation 14:6-7
(6) And I saw another angel fly in the midst of heaven, having the everlasting gospel to preach unto them that dwell on the earth, and to every nation, and kindred, and tongue, and people,
(7) Saying with a loud voice, Fear God, and give glory to him; for the hour of his judgment is come: and worship him that made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and the fountains of waters.
Ephesians 5:25
(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Romans 5:8
(8) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Luke 23:34
(34) Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
Brother, you have a lot of anger and resentment. You say you want her to pay for taking your kids away from you ... but if you are truly and sincerely worried about your kids you wouldn't be thinking of getting revenge on their mother.
Yes, you will be arrested for assault-even on your wife. I wouldn't stay married to someone who beat me either. Any sane person would not stay in a relationship like that.
What would be best for you right now is NOT to look at what other people have been doing TO YOU but what you need to change in your own life. Hatred will destroy you brother, and not just physically....I'm talking about spiritually.
Please, please, please for your own sake, take a good look at your own mistakes (not anybody else's)-acknowledge them to yourself and to God and apologize to God. Study Jesus' teachings in the New Testament (book of Matthew is very good) and pray for Him to come into your heart. Nothing in your life is going to work out until you do this.
Please stay away from your ex-wife and your kids until you do this. You won't be able to control your anger.
i noticed like every1 else the main issue is me slapping her not her adultrey which caused it....and god does worse than smack us when we rebel or constantly rebel! in peter 2 GOD condones beating slaves....when theyy need chastisement.. the bible also condoned “ rods” for fools and children... revenge and justice are 2 diff things!
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