Nice Guys Finish Last

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Crypto

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A verse that comes to mind...

30 But many that are first shall be last; and the last shall be first.
Matt 19:30 (KJV)

So nice guys that finish last will be first!
 
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tif

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#5
A verse that comes to mind...

30 But many that are first shall be last; and the last shall be first.
Matt 19:30 (KJV)

So nice guys that finish last will be first!
^This. Also, some of us are sick of bad boys and start to wonder where all the real men went.

;)
 
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Jfreak7

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#6
oh my wow, i will so use this!!
thanks for that
 
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Whyllow

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#7
Honestly? I don't like the bad boys. They like to use, abuse and step on women who are way too good for them. I want a nice guy. The "nice guys" are the real men in the world.
 
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lightbliss

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Wow.

I think nice guys don't have to "finish last." From what I've read on this forum, several nice guys are just too nervous to ask a female out. When they do, they might be timid and that may turn the female off thus causing her to turn down the male thus furthering his shyness with females. So, I guess when I consider that, their initial anxiety is founded. What happens now?
 
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FireWire

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Honestly? I don't like the bad boys. They like to use, abuse and step on women who are way too good for them. I want a nice guy. The "nice guys" are the real men in the world.

There are some not very nice women out there too. I've come across a fair few and been screwed over by one.
 
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Wow.

I think nice guys don't have to "finish last." From what I've read on this forum, several nice guys are just too nervous to ask a female out. When they do, they might be timid and that may turn the female off thus causing her to turn down the male thus furthering his shyness with females. So, I guess when I consider that, their initial anxiety is founded. What happens now?
Thats why they finish last.
 
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Note: This was meant as satire/comedy, but any serious discussion that evolves is fantastic lol
 
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Note: This was meant as satire/comedy, but any serious discussion that evolves is fantastic lol
I knew it was comedy, thats why I LOLed, but theres some truth to it too. Girls fall for the insensitive guys all the time because they come across as the most confident and interesting. Good guys usually are too polite and try too hard to be nice and so they come across as weak.
 
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ZhangLi

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#13
Wow.

I think nice guys don't have to "finish last." From what I've read on this forum, several nice guys are just too nervous to ask a female out. When they do, they might be timid and that may turn the female off thus causing her to turn down the male thus furthering his shyness with females. So, I guess when I consider that, their initial anxiety is founded. What happens now?
Yes, nice guys don't have to "finish last" unless they are brave enough.
 
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tif

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You know, wouldn't it be ironic if this video were true for most working relationships? I can hear the lunchroom banter now....

Girl A: Jeremy is such a jerk! I think I'm going to break up with him.
Girl B: You know, I thought the same thing about Sam, but he changed. If you just keep waiting for him, he'll become the man you always dreamed of!
 
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Jullianna

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#15
Cute video. :) Lot of truth to that...
 
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Whyllow

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#16
There are some not very nice women out there too. I've come across a fair few and been screwed over by one.
That is definitely true on that. I know one of those "bad girls" and every time I see her she's dating a sweet, caring, willing to do anything for her, kind of guy, and then when she's bored she tosses them like they were trash.
 
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thimsrebma

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I believe that its the same for women too. There are abunch of nice guys out there that go for "not nice" women. I don't understand why we nice guys and girls don't go for each other and leave the bad boys and girls to themselves.
 
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1still_waters

Guest
#18
If nice guys could get the spine of a bad boy, there would be far less nice guys whining about stuff. :p

Funny vid by the way!