what, she just leaves stuff all over the floor. lol
men do that too, and it doesnt matter whether they live with their parents or not. Parents are not personal maids, and neither are wives.
In fact, people in the world are gross. There are laws against littering because people will just chuck their rubbish anywhere. And if they dont want it on their own property they will dump it somewhere else and make it someone elses problem.
You pretty much nailed my personality. I take personal responsibility serious as well as I have a servants heart. I don't find anything beneath me. These are not gender bias traits by any means these are traits male and female have depending upon the individual.
I also am not very demanding an dislike telling people what to do. Again these are not gender bias traits either. So when I will be on the lookout again. I will look for traits that are organically that woman's very nature.
I find the bible is pure wisdom. By that I mean I find it is not also truth when it comes to spiritual matters but contains the wisdom and the truth for daily practical living as well.
Bible says can two walk together unless they agree. For me this covers all forms of personal relationships in the daily practical be it business partners, friendships, marriage partnership, and etc. It is easier to reach a common goal if you have common shared worldviews or shared traits that are just the natural part of the individual.
Christ said what is in a persons heart will come out of their mouth. I have found it also does to apply to their actions. Who we are will just show in what we say and in what we do.
Understand I read your post as a friendly tease or poke. So no animosity at all. However, I did find that in your friendly poke you did nail down just what I am trying to avoid as a woman's natural personality traits.
I am trying to avoid someone who uses others as a reason to avoid personal responsibility, "men do that too" as well as someone who finds being a servant beneath them "Parents are not personal maids, and neither are wives."
So again please understand I am not saying that is how you personally feel. As I read you more just giving me a friendly poke or a friendly riling up so there was no animosity on your part.
However, there are individuals and again is not gender specific, who that is really how they truly feel. In that they will look to use others to excuse personal responsibility and they find things beneath them.
Which again this kind of woman I find she and I will not be compatible. Which marriage has enough struggles as it is so why make one more for the both of us. By setting upon conflict when trying to move towards what should be a shared goal when we just don't share a in common view So really is about compatibility and two walking as one in agreement
So all that to say why I look at how a woman lives and how she treats the stuff she owns I listen to what she says and watch what she does. I am looking for as much as possible we are naturally already in unison over when it comes to shared traits and how we will move ahead together.
