Thank you for helping me see that.
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Please consider this conversation between Jesus Christ and a religious ruler of his day:
John chapter 3
[1] There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews:
[2] The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that you do, except God be with him.
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Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except a man is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
[4] Nicodemus said unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
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Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except a man is born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
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That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
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Marvel not that I said unto you, You must be born again.
Jesus said that in order for us to "see the kingdom of God" (vs. 3) or "enter into the kingdom of God" (vs. 5) we need to be "born again" (vs. 3), or "born of water and of the Spirit" (vs. 5), or "born of the Spirit" (vs. 6). He also emphatically stated that we "MUST be born again" (vs. 7).
You've probably heard of the term "born again Christian" at some point in your life, and this is primarily where it is derived from.
I mentioned to you earlier how we've all sinned by being in league with Satan or demons, and here is something that the Bible has to say about the same:
Ephesians chapter 2
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1] And you has he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins;
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2] Wherein in time past you walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now works in the children of disobedience:
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3] Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
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4] But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us,
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5] Even when we were dead in sins, has quickened us together with Christ, (by grace you are saved)
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6] And has raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus:
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7] That in the ages to come he might show the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.
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8] For by grace are you saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
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9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Here, the Apostle Paul was writing to Christians while reminding them of what they were like before they got saved. Like them, we "in time past walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, THE SPIRIT that now works in the children of disobedience: among whom we also all had our conversation (an old English word which means "behavior" or "manner of life") in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; AND WERE BY NATURE THE CHILDREN OF WRATH, EVEN AS OTHERS."
In other words, again, all of our sins in the past were motivated by THE SPIRIT that works in the children of disobedience, or by Satan and demons, and we were BY NATURE the children of wrath, even as others.
THIS is why we desperately need a new nature, or THIS is why we desperately need to be "born again", SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING.
Jesus spoke of being "born of water and of the Spirit" (John 3:5), and, simply put, this is what this means:
The "water" is representative of water baptism, which itself is representative of our old nature being buried with Christ that we might be raised up in newness of life or "born again", SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING.
With this in mind, the "Spirit" part of being "born again" is when God sends the Holy Spirit to dwell inside of us in order to enable us to be holy as he is holy.
Whereas we used to be led by "the spirit" which works in the children of disobedience, we now are led by the Holy Spirit, and he's not called the HOLY Spirit for nothing. Again, he alone gives us the ability to live holy lives before both the Lord and man.
Basically, what I'm saying to you is this:
If you believe that you're a sinner who cannot save yourself...
If you realize that it was a spirit which was motivating you to sin or to be disobedient unto God...
If you believe that Jesus Christ died for your sins and rose again from the dead...
THEN you should repent of your sins and place your saving faith in Jesus Christ that you might be "born again" of the Holy Spirit.
If you choose to do so, then you should follow the Lord's instructions throughout scripture in relation to water baptism ("the water" part).
Again, water baptism OUTWARDLY signifies that your old nature is being buried with Christ in order that you might be "born again". In other words, it's an outward token of that which has already taken place INWARDLY or in your heart in relation to your belief in Christ's own burial and resurrection from the dead.
Hopefully, this makes sense.
If not, then please ask any questions that you might have.