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phil36

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If you looked for a spouse and God brought your spouse into your life... How would you know? (especially if they had some bad habits you didnt like)
 
you mean how we would know he is the one?

I dont know if i will know who is my future husband if i know him lol, but i imagine that when God send me a man to be my husband then i wil feel very comfortable with him, that he will be very different to me but at the same time very easy to be with him a lot of time without boring, but i think that he will know that i will be his wife first lol
 
They will have experienced the good and the bad that is me and are still standing there. I don't really care about bad habits. Excluding illegal ones I am assuming. Everything else? Sideline stuff that gets worked on every day.

The kick in the head from God will help also.
 
The stork will drop him off in front of my house.
 
They say that love is a gift,but in the world that gift is never truly opened until after they get married,and then they might not like it.They say why did you not give me a heads up before we were married of how you were.

People before they get married will try to hide their flaws of character,but it is hard to do because it is a part of their worldly way,but when they get married then those character flaws come out,for they can only hold them back for so long,seeing the nature of their sinful nature and part of their personality,and then when they are married they let out those character flaws,and go ahh that felt good,as they let their personality have it's way.

How would someone know if God sent them someone,but you would probably think He did,if this is a person that you really like that you have never had some intrigue you as much as that person.
 
I think the directions will be like reading vcr instructions.

After 90 years, you realize you were trying to read it upside down anyways.
 
If you looked for a spouse and God brought your spouse into your life... How would you know? (especially if they had some bad habits you didnt like)

If someone has bad habits you don't like, they will only be magnified long term. How many couples do you know who start out thinking something one of them does is annoying, but cute...and after a while, it's just not so cute anymore. If there are bad habits, they need to be discussed before you marry. The other person may not even realize what they are doing or that it affects you so strongly.

How do you know when the person is right? When they become as much a part of you as breathing and you can't imagine living your life without them in it.
 
They say that love is a gift,but in the world that gift is never truly opened until after they get married,and then they might not like it.They say why did you not give me a heads up before we were married of how you were.

People before they get married will try to hide their flaws of character,but it is hard to do because it is a part of their worldly way,but when they get married then those character flaws come out,for they can only hold them back for so long,seeing the nature of their sinful nature and part of their personality,and then when they are married they let out those character flaws,and go ahh that felt good,as they let their personality have it's way.

I've always felt the same way. I've heard people complain that the person they married to is not who they thought they were only a short time after the wedding. One guy couldn't believe how different his wife was at home. They didn't live together before they got married, and they weren't even christian.