They say that love is a gift,but in the world that gift is never truly opened until after they get married,and then they might not like it.They say why did you not give me a heads up before we were married of how you were.
People before they get married will try to hide their flaws of character,but it is hard to do because it is a part of their worldly way,but when they get married then those character flaws come out,for they can only hold them back for so long,seeing the nature of their sinful nature and part of their personality,and then when they are married they let out those character flaws,and go ahh that felt good,as they let their personality have it's way.