I've read the book and taken the test. I'm Physical touch first and Words of Affirmation came in second. Which explains a lot. My dad beat me senseless when i was young (he was drunk and has been clean for almost 10 months now) so I never really felt any love from him. I also got beat up in school a lot cuz I was hyperactive and generally dork. Needless to say I felt hated everywhere and isolated myself from others. Having developed the habit of isolation, and withdrawal, I never did feel loved or cared for at all until just the last few years. Most of my relationships have been online. I feel safer over the net and thus am less reserved than I am in person.