I don't see this place as the same as an in-person assembly either, but I do honestly believe that many/most in-person assemblies are represented here by the crazy beliefs of several different members here.I can see your point: if this place somehow instantly became an in-person assembly I probably wouldn't stick around either; my standards for that kind of assembly are much higher. That's not a slam against anyone personally, I just mean my expectations for protocol would be much different.
But I don't see this place as the same as an in-person assembly of believers; it's not a church gathering and I think if a person looks at it that way they'll be sorely disappointed.
Anyhow, I fully expect that a lot of people here think that I'm crazy as well, so I just look for my spots to hopefully sow some good seed.