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Indirect way of the 'ask,' but in a church setting why not give out the cards and if the guy calls you , great. Pick your fave or go for coffee or,whatever simple , with more than one guyI just wonder if some get left out with this approach to gettinng to know someone.
Not sure what you mean by 'social circle,' allfunfor. I'm assuming a church singles setting for the card hand-outs. Anyway, if its a large singles group 50+, good mix guys n gals , I like this approach.
The 'moo' name has got to go though
. Why is it called that?
Indirect way of the 'ask,' but in a church setting why not give out the cards and if the guy calls you , great. Pick your fave or go for coffee or,whatever simple , with more than one guyI just wonder if some get left out with this approach to gettinng to know someone.
Not sure what you mean by 'social circle,' allfunfor. I'm assuming a church singles setting for the card hand-outs. Anyway, if its a large singles group 50+, good mix guys n gals , I like this approach.
The 'moo' name has got to go though
. Why is it called that?
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Indirect way of the 'ask,' but in a church setting why not give out the cards and if the guy calls you , great. Pick your fave or go for coffee or,whatever simple , with more than one guyI just wonder if some get left out with this approach to gettinng to know someone.
Not sure what you mean by 'social circle,' allfunfor. I'm assuming a church singles setting for the card hand-outs. Anyway, if its a large singles group 50+, good mix guys n gals , I like this approach.
The 'moo' name has got to go though. Why is it called that?
Indirect way of the 'ask,' but in a church setting why not give out the cards and if the guy calls you , great. Pick your fave or go for coffee or,whatever simple , with more than one guyI just wonder if some get left out with this approach to gettinng to know someone.
Not sure what you mean by 'social circle,' allfunfor. I'm assuming a church singles setting for the card hand-outs. Anyway, if its a large singles group 50+, good mix guys n gals , I like this approach.
The 'moo' name has got to go though
. Why is it called that?
My social circle...meaning business and social networking. I came back to Kansas where technology is not at the premium like I have been used to, so no one has understood my Moo cards no really appreciated them. They have my designs or photos on them and are really rather neat if I do say so myself. Kansas, we are behind the times. Yes, I will be moving out shortly.
I would do this in a church social group, if we had one. Our church does a lot of gatherings, but mostly people are married so that probably wouldn't work.
I'm just not shy nor a wall flower and if I felt the need to pass my card out, I do it all the time. Not just for a date, but to go out for lunch or whatever.The point of this was, even if no one calls, I made the effort. I am not wondering why I can't get out there. I am out there.
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I picked the direct way. Big surprise. Perhaps some other women are like me I don't want to assume anything. Creativity is great but wait till I get to know your particular brand of silliness, joking, whatever. By the way Green, I posted that wooing thread not after one creative ask out....... I get it all the time. Maybe I send out a don't ask vibe..... these guys are people I meet at work so I really doubt they are christian so I automatically am unsure of them
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Take it up with the company, I didn't name them
My social circle...meaning business and social networking. I came back to Kansas where technology is not at the premium like I have been used to, so no one has understood my Moo cards no really appreciated them. They have my designs or photos on them and are really rather neat if I do say so myself. Kansas, we are behind the times. Yes, I will be moving out shortly.
I would do this in a church social group, if we had one. Our church does a lot of gatherings, but mostly people are married so that probably wouldn't work. I'm just not shy nor a wall flower and if I felt the need to pass my card out, I do it all the time. Not just for a date, but to go out for lunch or whatever.
The point of this was, even if no one calls, I made the effort. I am not wondering why I can't get out there. I am out there.
My social circle...meaning business and social networking. I came back to Kansas where technology is not at the premium like I have been used to, so no one has understood my Moo cards no really appreciated them. They have my designs or photos on them and are really rather neat if I do say so myself. Kansas, we are behind the times. Yes, I will be moving out shortly.
I would do this in a church social group, if we had one. Our church does a lot of gatherings, but mostly people are married so that probably wouldn't work.
I'm just not shy nor a wall flower and if I felt the need to pass my card out, I do it all the time. Not just for a date, but to go out for lunch or whatever.The point of this was, even if no one calls, I made the effort. I am not wondering why I can't get out there. I am out there.
My mom would like your Moo cards, allfunfor. Mom grew up the dairy girl, and, now she alas gets stuff birthday, x-más, and, all year little gifts really. Cows can moo any way they like but must be black and white with horns. That's no bull, or, should I say, only bull.
--yeah, Kansas , home of the depressión era workhands, husking the wheat in the heartland (Grapes of Wrath). Yeah, sounds like you grew up there, left, came back. The Lord leads. He'll provide your next steps then, if you are thinking of mooving.
Just stay 'righteous' Cuz those are the folks, allfunfor, whose steps are ordered by God. ---LOL , Wallflower . In college, during freshmen orientation we had a dorm bi-split, boys, girls . Anyway, during this initiation week we all paired up and, forget the specifics, but I was one of the last ones to choose and girl said, 'at least I'm not a wallflower.'
I had really no clue what she meant, except she was not interested in me and I just thought it all darkly comical that night . Good insight allfunfor, sounds like your faithfully waiting on the Lord for His one and dating a few other numbers until that one shows up.
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Ok, well, I like rainacorn's answer best and I personally cannot think of doing anything but w creative ask IF I barely know the person but I see where direct works well too. Indirect note can work too, just, I think, more work needs to go into a guy pulling that off to someone they barely know.
Well, besides Darth Zero and Stratos, and, btw, I Thank you both for humorous insights, just doesn't't seem like guys know what to say as much, which I understand. Guys don't like to even go to the 'ask' in a thread because it reminds so many of us of the verbal 'no,' or, our creative ask followed by just a smile and no verbal cue and, moteover, we go away thinking she don't like me.
So sad
But its worth it, just ask 'The Tramp.' Ahhh, amore. (Disney movie)
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I was just looking at the poll results.
I didn't mean to bump my thread by JUST looking at the poll results, but THAT is how it worked. The Lord leads. Oh well. Bumpity, bump-bump.
BUMP BUMP !
__Since I am here, I will say one more thing and let this thread ride (like Rango) into the sunset
___ Thanks ! Ladies, you provided guys with A TON of insight. I am sure many saw this thread, and, if you can help just one of us guy guys to FIND a good right proper way to do the 'ask,' then it's worth it. Direct, by far, was the way voted for. TWO for creative and the rest were DIRECT, with a couple indirect too (I am not at the poll now and can't see it but my green brain remembers it that way) .
Will you ladies have a good God night then?
And, if you think that you may have ONLY helped out one guy, well, think about what the angels all do in Heaven when one person comes to the Lord ! Just ONE !! Saving just one IS worth it. So, like the angels, and, I can't, of course, be sure you helped even ONE, oh, wait, yes, I can , rejoice.
And all the stuff I hear from dothackzero, the_boy recently was asking why me? And, the 'woo' thread that got me to do THIS thread in the first place was laced with guys FRuSTRaTED . Even STratosphere was saying, '90% of women don't know what they want,"
and I think the direct opposite is true. THEY do know. Guys just don't know how to......ask
God bless your weekends, ladies, and, guys too, may the Lord lead your life greatly right now as you call on Him for whatever undying want is in your life !!! Prayer (to God) changes everything, it's always His timing, and, that can be, one hour, one week, one hour, or, one year (or 'never' if its not right for you). But God will answer your prayer wont on your heart when it's time.
I didn't mean to bump my thread by JUST looking at the poll results, but THAT is how it worked. The Lord leads. Oh well. Bumpity, bump-bump.
BUMP BUMP !
__Since I am here, I will say one more thing and let this thread ride (like Rango) into the sunset
___ Thanks ! Ladies, you provided guys with A TON of insight. I am sure many saw this thread, and, if you can help just one of us guy guys to FIND a good right proper way to do the 'ask,' then it's worth it. Direct, by far, was the way voted for. TWO for creative and the rest were DIRECT, with a couple indirect too (I am not at the poll now and can't see it but my green brain remembers it that way) .
Will you ladies have a good God night then?
And, if you think that you may have ONLY helped out one guy, well, think about what the angels all do in Heaven when one person comes to the Lord ! Just ONE !! Saving just one IS worth it. So, like the angels, and, I can't, of course, be sure you helped even ONE, oh, wait, yes, I can
, rejoice. And all the stuff I hear from dothackzero, the_boy recently was asking why me? And, the 'woo' thread that got me to do THIS thread in the first place was laced with guys FRuSTRaTED . Even STratosphere was saying, '90% of women don't know what they want,"
and I think the direct opposite is true. THEY do know. Guys just don't know how to......ask
God bless your weekends, ladies, and, guys too, may the Lord lead your life greatly right now as you call on Him for whatever undying want is in your life !!! Prayer (to God) changes everything, it's always His timing, and, that can be, one hour, one week, one hour, or, one year (or 'never' if its not right for you). But God will answer your prayer wont on your heart when it's time.