What makes you think that my loved ones won't also be raptured? When the rapture occurs those remaining will suffer and die regardless of any preparations they may have made.
I have no idea who you are or who your loved ones are.
What I do know is that the types and shadows and clear word suggest it will be a small fraction of those who proclaim to be Christian.
1. Out of the twelve spies who spied out the land only 2 made it into the land.
2. Out of all those who left Egypt only two who were over 20 made it into the land.
3. In Revelation 2-3 only one of the seven churches has the promise of being kept out of the hour of trial that is to come on the whole earth.
After talking about the rapture with one being taken and one left the Lord then gave three stories to describe the selection process.
1. You would have evil servants in the Lord's house (church) who were beating their fellow servants and eating and drinking with the drunken. In this story one is evil and one is good.
2. The next story is of the ten virgins, five have vessels filled with oil, and five were foolish and the Lord says "I never knew you".
3. The final story is about the Lord reckoning with his servants, two had invested the talents He gave them and were profitable, one had buried it in the backyard.
If we begin with 12 who claim to be Christian, half of them are not taken. Then of those six that make it through the first criteria, half of those don't have a personal relationship with the Lord. Then of the three that are left only two have a ministry where they are actively sharing their talent from the Lord to get him a return on his investment. Again, that works out to 2 out of 12.
Now if you and your loved ones live in America recent polls show that 22% of Americans go to church every week. If half of them make it through the first criteria that is 11%. If half of them have a personal relationship with the Lord that is 5.5%. If two thirds of them are actively involved in ministry that is 3.6%. It would be very unusual for anyone to have 100% of their loved ones get raptured unless they have very, very few loved ones. The odds are for every 20 people you know less than 5 will be raptured. See post #188