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I dunno, I think I have come to learn that I don't say "I love you" enough. I have seen the error of my ways and will try to do it much more often. Hopefully I can find ways to tell at least four girls a day that I love them. I will also try to tell eight women a day that I am a model scout. I think it is important to be much more romantic like this in a world where no one else is anymore.
 
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Whoops, almost forgot.... to all of you christian chat girls, I just want you to know I love you.
 
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princessbella

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Whoops, almost forgot.... to all of you christian chat girls, I just want you to know I love you.
Back at ya and thanks , have a great weekend
 
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Jullianna

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I dunno, I think I have come to learn that I don't say "I love you" enough. I have seen the error of my ways and will try to do it much more often. Hopefully I can find ways to tell at least four girls a day that I love them. I will also try to tell eight women a day that I am a model scout. I think it is important to be much more romantic like this in a world where no one else is anymore.
*****faints*****
 
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nanabean

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Nanabeaniana, I have said I love you to the talking dog on Geico commercials. Does that count?

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It's just not easy for guys to say 'I love you' after been married many years to their gal.
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I've always found that odd, just a noté to the topic at hand.

You would think that long, years and years, those three words would roll out just as easy ad the Geico dog's.


---hey, Zere, can you post YouTube clip for me, for those unfamiliar with that dog. And why not go to my c.c. real name game thread and give people a clue, like my name has a liittle to do with a Disney movie, 'Angels In The Outfield?'

Just saying. As parker county Joe would say :D
Huh??......I don't get it.......I've been married 25 years and my hubby has NO problem with saying those three little words to me!!.....unless..do you mean it's hard for a long married guy to say those words to others than his wife?? I could maybe see that....but Papabean still says it to our girls, his nieces and nephews, his brothers, my mom, cousins galore, and even the kids I babysit, so....??? I still don't get it!!!


As for the Geico dog......never seen him!!!
 
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F8Th

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I never really say i love you...not to anyone, it makes me sad :( Theres this one kid, i saved his life cus he was suicidal, and hes like a little brother to me....i tell him i love him all the time. But other than that, i DONT EVER say it...not to parents, other friends...no one.
 
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Boanerges

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I'm sure the "right time" varies by person and circumstance... But how many times do people say "I love you" when what they really mean is "I'm infatuated with you" or "I'm sexually attracted to you"? Before someone tells you that they love you, shouldn't they:

- have seen you without makeup or when you have a cold and your nose looks like Rudolph's
- know your passion for the Lord, your family, for your work and life in general
- understand how protective you are of the people you love and sometimes even those you don't
- have seen you angry or in an unguarded moment when you weren't on your best behavior
- have seen you do something incredibly stupid :) (and I'm sure I'm the only one who does stupid things, right? haha)

Don't get me wrong. I'm TOTALLY for romance and romantic gestures. I'm a fool for those things and they touch me deeply.. But..I just don't think you should tell someone you love them until you really do. The whole person. The REAL person. The good and the bad..and love the quirks just as much. Peeling back the layers is an incredibly loving, awesome process. :)

What say you?
Well, a youth pastor once gave me an advice. He said:
"If you see her taking a booger out from her nose and you see that she start to play with it and you still feel something for her, it is love. If you can imagine her in the toilet with some problems, maybe she pushing or making 'that kind of noises' and you still fill something for her, it is love. :p
 

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"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings." - Anais Nin
I'm stealing this too. :)


"I love you"
I don't necessarily say it a lot because I prefer to have it understood as being something that is the last straw. Like the kiss that caps the epic adventure or the long awaited airport arrival, where those three words cannot do justice to the meaning behind them. That is how it is served best, not the other way around.
 
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Suzie2family

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"I love you"
I don't necessarily say it a lot because I prefer to have it understood as being something that is the last straw. Like the kiss that caps the epic adventure or the long awaited airport arrival, where those three words cannot do justice to the meaning behind them. That is how it is served best, not the other way around.
You, sir, truly do have a poetic way with words. Nicely put.
 
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You, sir, truly do have a poetic way with words. Nicely put.

Oh come on, everyone on here knows by now that Liamson is juggling about 10 different girlfriends and has the hearts of all of the girls on here. I just wish he'd spend some time responding to the hard luck guys requests for advice instead of letting a complete moron like me do it.
 

Liamson

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Oh come on, everyone on here knows by now that Liamson is juggling about 10 different girlfriends and has the hearts of all of the girls on here. I just wish he'd spend some time responding to the hard luck guys requests for advice instead of letting a complete moron like me do it.

I don't know what you're talking about but, I know that I need relationship advice just as much as the next guy. I'm trying to be helpful.

And you are not a moron, lets be honest, you aren't fooling anyone by playing dumb.
 
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I don't know what you're talking about but, I know that I need relationship advice just as much as the next guy. I'm trying to be helpful.

And you are not a moron, lets be honest, you aren't fooling anyone by playing dumb.

I guess I just have this deep belief that you have it more figured out than the rest of us on here and probably any problems you might have are about 7 steps past most of us. So while some of us can't figure out even where to meet anyone or are begging for a date you're at advanced stages of cunning women trying to bamboozle you. Ah yes, the shocks some of us are going to experience if we ever get to that level.
 
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Huh??......I don't get it.......I've been married 25 years and my hubby has NO problem with saying those three little words to me!!.....unless..do you mean it's hard for a long married guy to say those words to others than his wife?? I could maybe see that....but Papabean still says it to our girls, his nieces and nephews, his brothers, my mom, cousins galore, and even the kids I babysit, so....??? I still don't get it!!!


As for the Geico dog......never seen him!!!
-----nanaB, I hope I am not making a blanket statement too much on the guy not saying I Love You much after 10 years into the marriage. It's not that guy doesn't't love wife , he just thinks, literally, it goes without saying that he does love her.

---I will put on I love you dog soon, nanaB
 

cozy

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wow from what I have been through, IDK if I can tell another person that in the romantic sense. I love all Gods children, but to put those words on someone, IDK if I have it in me. I was told that for nearly 2 decades "I will love you forever" and you know.....that didn't work out so well so it would be hard for me to hear that and it would def be hard to say that. I would have to have like a bajillion confirmations from God that this was the one before I said that to someone. I wouldn't wanna hurt anyone.
 
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The_boy

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Husbands are called to love their wife as Christ loved the church. If a guy isn't sure he's willing to give his life for the gal, then he better not go saying I love you.
Agreed. I've thought like that since I was like... 9. (I know... odd for a nine year old boy to think at ALL about love right? it's called being raised almost exclusively by women and your dad scaring you lifeless.)